關於 all the best to you and your family too ，我們在網路上蒐集到這些相關的討論、資訊與評價

有女儿是幸福的。我有你们俩，双倍幸福。❤ Happy International Daughter's Day, my dears.

I don't think I could have survived the past year if not for the two of you. I see how you have matured and grown as big sisters, how you try your best to teach and tolerate your younger brother, how you dote on the baby to the moon and back, how you enjoy being little Mamas and helping to change diapers, bathe, carry and calm him when he cries, how you try your best to cope with HBL, homework and revision independently, how you care for each other and like to share girly secrets, and last but not least, how you love me and Papa too.

Growing up, I thought having two kids would be ideal but that notion changed along the way. A big part of it was because seeing the two of you grow up into who you are made me feel like it would be wonderful to have a bigger family. Indeed, both of you have welcomed your siblings with open arms and are the best daughters and best sisters I could dream of, and I am so thankful that we are where we are today.

No doubt we will still have a great deal of challenges to tackle as you two become tweens and teens in a year or two, yet somehow, I know one way or another, we are gonna be all right. No, in fact, we are gonna be more than all right. We will weather every storm hand in hand and through it all, you two will be my BFFs and hopefully, I can be someone whom you are willing to share all your ups and downs, joy and woe with too.

Thank you for making me believe that I can be a good mum and for motivating me to be even better every day. I love you, my girls. ❤

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【一切的失敗和不足，都是最美好的安排】
All Failures & Lacks Are The Best Things to Happen to Us

三個月前，收到來自台灣客人的這封電郵時，開心和心酸交織著在心裡。

開心，因為這是一年前通過Zoom視訊的客人。他居然在我們看八字的一週年，特地寫了封感謝函給我，真有心！

心酸，因為他寫在電郵裡的低落心情，我完完全全明白。

他的經歷，是我的曾經。我當初也是很難，很久才能走出來。

有一回，我為一位芳華正茂的女子批八字時，她很用心的寫下我說的話。

論寫筆記的完整，她是我客人當中的佼佼者。

寫到一半，我注意到她的右手開始微微顫抖。我以為是空調的風太大了，冷到她，便問她要不要披巾。

她說，是她的焦慮症發作。

「我沒在兇你，也沒對你嚴厲，你為何突然焦慮？」

「我.....打從今年疫情打亂了我的計畫，我就一直很焦慮。我覺得我很沒用，同學們都前進了，只有我現在什麼都不是，亂糟糟的。我就一直很緊張，萬一我一直都是這樣，怎麼辦？」

說著，她眼眶一紅，眼淚像斷了線的珍珠鏈似的灑下來。

我的媽呀！是我的樣子長得很催淚，還是我的聲音聽起來很虐心？怎麼客人，不分男女老少，東南西北，看到我好像都很容易哭？

我抓起一張紙巾遞給她。

「所以，我不是來了嗎？你來找我，就是要問個明路，而你很幸運那麼快就看到我啦！你看你的筆記寫得多工整，多齊全。我很多客人都不如你啊！我今天的工作，就是來給你答案的。我沒有把握，也不會接你這份差事。我接了，就代表還可以補救。你照著我的指示去做，一定柳暗花明又一村。」

又另一回，一位四十多歲的媽媽請我看兒子的八字。

我在批著八字時，這位媽媽點頭認同，然後就聲淚俱下。

我轉頭看著她沈默不語的先生。我說錯了什麼嗎？太太哭成淚人，你怎麼連紙巾也不拿給她啊？

「我是個沒有用的母親，很不稱職的母親。我沒有辦法教好孩子。我很愛他，可是很多時候我都不知道要怎麼做，我就會對他發脾氣，說狠話，過後我又後悔。我忍下來，可是後來還是會一樣！」

我沒打斷她，等她的哭聲逐漸小聲後，我柔柔的說：「我來啦！我坐在你前面了。你已經看到我，就是有辦法了。你知道你自己不行，會去找辦法，就代表你願意去學習做個好媽媽啊！」

我把紙巾遞給她，再說：「不要哭了，要不然，別人看了以為是我不要借你錢，才把你弄得那麼傷心。」

曾幾何時，我們都會以外在所擁有的，來定義自己的人生是否值得自己喜歡。

從原生家庭、樣貌、健康、身型、智力、天賦等，到後來的學歷、友情、事業、財富、婚姻、子女......

哪一樣沒有，而偏偏是我們最想要的，我們就會認定自己失敗的一塌糊塗。

我認為這就是普通教育最大的問題所在。父母老師都是這樣把我們「分門別類」的。值不值得父母疼愛或向親朋戚友炫耀，也離不開那幾點。

久而久之，我們也只會以「成功」來定義自己是否有價值，甚至來衡量自己是否有活下去的勇氣。

我比較喜歡佛法的定義。我們每個人都是一尊佛，六道眾生皆有佛性，只因一時的迷，因此墮落在苦輪不停的輪迴。

可正因為我們有佛性，我們都有無窮無盡的可能。每個人的內在有著很強大的力量，等著我們遇到明師後，去發掘、探索和了解。

而這天生俱來的力量，就是你改命立命的資本。

如果人生順風順水，我們永遠不會想要出離，誤把人間當極樂，所以一定要有苦，我們才會意識到，為什麼我們會在這鬼地方？要怎麼樣才可以離開這鬼地方去到極樂？

反過來，我們都應該感恩自己遇到的挫折，因為從這些苦中，我們才能生出智慧。

沒有一個八字是完美的。一切的失敗和不足，都是最美好的安排，如此你才會有出離心，返本歸源。

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3 months ago, when I received this email from my Taiwan client, there was this feeling of bittersweetness.

I was happy because this was the client I did a Zoom consultation last June. He sent me this email on the one-year anniversary date of our Zoom call, to express his gratitude. How sweet!

On the other hand, I could relate to the emotional turmoil he felt at that point in his life.

His experience was my past. It also took me a very long time to walk out from my gloominess.

Once, I analysed the Bazi of a very young lady. She was meticulously jotting down notes as I spoke.

Her detailed note-taking skills easily took the top place among my clients.

Halfway through, I noticed her right hand was trembling slightly. I thought it was due to the cold draft from the air conditioning, so I asked if she needed a shawl.

She replied that it was her anxiety disorder acting up.

“I was not fierce or strict with you. What caused your sudden anxiety?”

“I…ever since the pandemic disrupted my plans, I have been in this state of anxiety. I kept feeling useless. All my classmates are progressing expect me. I have nothing to show for and my life is in a mess. I am very anxious. What if I continue to be like this? What am I going to do?”

As she spoke, her eyes turned red and tears started rolling down like a broken strand of pearl necklace scattering onto the ground.

Oh dear! I am beginning to wonder if I have a tear-jerker face or a heart-tormenting voice. Why do my clients, regardless of gender and age, North South or East West, seem to cry easily when they see me?

I grabbed a piece of tissue and handed it to her.

“Ain’t I here already? You came to me for a roadmap and you are very lucky to see me so soon. Look at how precise and neat your notes are! Many of my clients aren’t even on par with you. My job today is to give you answers. If I didn’t have the confidence, I would not have taken up your request. Now that I did, that means there is still hope. If you follow my instructions, you will see things looking up very soon.”

On another occasion, a mother in her forties came to me for her son’s Bazi consultation.

As I was analysing, the mother nodded her head in agreement. The next thing I know, she started weeping loudly.

I turned to look at her husband, who had been silent all along. Did I say something wrong? And hello, your wife was crying. Why weren’t you gentleman enough to give her a tissue paper?

“I am a useless mother. I am incompetent. I do not know how to teach my son well. I love my son very much. But many times, I do not know what to do and thus I flare up at him and speak harshly. I always regret afterwards. I tried enduring but it still ends badly!”

I did not interrupt her and waited for her cries to soften, before speaking gently, “I’m here! I’m already sitting in front of you. You are looking at me now and that means help is here. You know that you are incompetent, so you went looking for solutions. That means you are willing to learn how to be a better mother!”

I handed a piece of tissue and said, “Don’t cry anymore, otherwise, other patrons will think that it’s because I refuse to lend you money.”

Since young, we have been using external possessions to define whether our lives are worth liking.

The family we are born into, our looks, health, body shape, intellect, talents, and then we move on to compare our academics, friendships, career, wealth, marriage and children.

If we are lacking in the area we covet most, we grade our lives as a failure.

I think this is the biggest problem in societal education. Our parents and teachers categorized us that way. Whether we as children are worthy of their love and bragging, depends on the few points above too.

Thus over time, we can only use the term “success” to determine whether we are of value, for some people, whether they should live on to take their next breath.

I very much prefer the definition in Buddhism. We are all Buddhas. Each and every sentient being in the six realms has a Buddha nature in them. But they got lost momentarily and fell into the endless wheel of reincarnation.

Yet, because of our Buddha nature, we have an unlimited source of potential. Every one of us has a very powerful strength inside us. It is just waiting for us to meet an accomplished teacher, so that we have the tools to explore and understand it:

And this strength that we are born with is the capital for us to transform and establish our own destiny.

If life is smooth-sailing, we would never want to leave and would mistake this mortal realm for Pureland. Thus, we all need sufferings, to realise that we should break out of this hell of a place. There has to be a better world somewhere. So how we get there?

We should, in fact, be grateful for all the setbacks and failures we have. Because it is from these sufferings, our wisdom arise:

No single Bazi is perfect. Every failure and lack we experience is the best arrangement for us, so that the heart of renunciation will arise in us and we will return to where we came from.

Company Description
Trove Brands (formerly known as BlenderBottle) is a privately-held house of brands including BlenderBottle®, Owala™, Avana®, and Whiskware™. Our patented and best-selling products are designed to simplify and improve everyday life with leading-edge innovation, incomparable quality, and aspirational style.

A career at Trove Brands is not about punching the clock. It’s about embracing exciting and fast-paced opportunities that sharpen your skills, drive innovation, and play an integral role in growing our global reach. Your work will not only impact the company, it will impact the lives of millions of people around the world. When you step up to a career at Trove, you step up to cutting-edge excellence. You sign up for bold action and invigorating synergy. You agree to face—and break through—new challenges every single day.

Job Description
As a Warehouse Associate at Trove Brands, you will coordinate the receiving, preparation, and shipping of product. You’ll play an integral role in the efficiency of our inbound and outbound supply chain.

But that’s not all.

You’ll become part of the Trove Brands family, which means being a part of a fun, fast-paced, and team-focused work culture. We work hard, and we play just as hard. We have the facilities for it, too—like our state-of-the-art fitness center, yoga studio, basketball/pickleball/volleyball court, and golf simulator. We host fitness classes, team-building activities (think pickleball, volleyball, and dodgeball tournaments), wellness challenges, and more.

Once you’ve worked up an appetite working and working out, you’ll enjoy our onsite marketplace with subsidized food and drinks, monthly catered lunches, and company-wide birthday treats (and with a company of 180+ team members and growing, there are bound to be treats a few times each week.)

You’re sure to love the culture at Trove, where entrepreneurial thinking is encouraged and you and your colleagues share an eagerness to learn. Your hard work will be recognized and you’ll feel that your contributions matter. You’ll be surrounded by kind, creative, interesting people with a zest for life—which is perfect, since you’re one, too. At Trove, we’re big on creating lasting friendships and making work feel less like work and more like a great way to spend the day.

Career-wise, your role will be a starting point, with plenty of potential to learn and grow. We’ll support you with coaching, mentoring, personal development, cross training, and leadership opportunities. You’ll benefit from twice yearly pay increase reviews and structured career ladders. You’ll never be bored, because we have plenty to do and it’s certainly fast paced; you’ll also enjoy a reasonable work/life balance (unlike many warehouse jobs, our schedule is primarily M-F during standard business hours). We even offer some flexibility with student schedules.

Yes, you’ll find all that in an extremely clean, well-organized environment that’s flooded with natural light, and filled with team members dedicated to workplace safety.

Now that we’ve caught your attention, here’s a bit more about what this particular role entails.

As a Warehouse Associate, you’ll be expected to be a leader in all aspects of the Fulfillment Team's job duties. You’ll apply your relentless drive and strong work ethic to encourage solid production numbers from yourself, as well as from others. While every role at Trove Brands is critical to our successful functioning as a whole, your specific responsibilities will include:

• Direct the general fulfillment of orders by example
• Strategize inbound receiving procedures
• Lead varying warehouse team projects, ensuring maximum group efficiency
• Manage warehouse organization, general cleanliness, and safety procedures
• Verify outbound shipments and coordinate documents to guarantee vendor compliance

Qualifications
We’re looking for team members who are adept at contributing their personal expertise to a collaborative work environment. We want people who are ready, willing, and eager to jump into the working world, learn new skills and apply existing ones, and grow in their careers. For this role, we’re specifically looking for someone with the following skills and experience:

• General Warehousing experience
• Strong communication skills
• Enjoy working in a fast-paced environment, proactive and highly motivated
• Keen attention to detail

Additional Information
Our culture is passionate, entrepreneurial, and energetic. We value innovation through collaboration. And while we work smart and hard, we also connect and celebrate with equal gusto. We host team-building activities, athletic events, and seasonal celebrations to foster community and reward accomplishments. Bottom line? You’ll love it here.
Among the many benefits our team members enjoy are:

- Full indoor basketball/volleyball court
- Fully equipped fitness center and yoga studio
- Meditation/Nap Room
- And more!

If you are too familiar with Westwern-style Steaks, today I will introduce you a completely new recipe in a style that cannot be any closer to the taste of Vietnamese people, which is Beef steak with wild betel leaves.

► Ingredients:
2 slices of beef steak 2cm thick (250g)
50g Westgold butter
3 garlic bulbs
5 wild betel leaves
Salt and pepper
200g pineapple
5mc anchovy sauce
2 mc Sugar
2 chili fruit
2 limes
fine rice vermicelli

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Singapore is a multiracial and multicultural country with ethnic Chinese (about 76% of the citizen population), Malays (15.0%), and ethnic Indians (7%). We also have Eurasians as well as other non-Singapore citizens in Singapore. Given our racial proportion, one would have imagined that our coffeeshops or foodcourts only have Chinese, Malay or Indian food but no matter what, there will always be one stall selling what we term affectionately as Western food. In case you're wondering how a Western food stall looks like in Singapore, just google it and there are plenty of images out there. Interestingly, the Western food we get at coffeeshops or foodcourts are usually marinated in Chinese style. :)) We grow up eating this type of Western food and we love it! My favourite order at a Western food stall is always chicken chop. Roland's favourite is mixed grill because he likes variety. What's yours?

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Singapore / Malaysian Style Chicken Chop 西式鸡扒
Ingredients:
Serves 3 pax
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Marinated chicken
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3 boneless chicken leg - butterflied (roughly around 220g or 7.76oz each)
3 tablespoons light soy sauce
2 tablespoons oyster sauce
0.5 teaspoon sugar
2 cloves crushed garlic
A few dashes of white pepper

Gravy
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20g (0.7 oz) unsalted butter
1 teaspoon grounded black pepper
1/3 of chicken stock cube
8g or 0.5 tablespoon all-purpose flour
200ml (6.76 fl oz) water
0.5 teaspoon dark soy sauce

Other ingredients
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Some french fries
Some baked beans
Some mixed vegetables
Some dinner rolls or bread

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Super Easy Taiwanese Braised Pork Rice Recipe 台湾卤肉饭 Chinese Pork Recipe
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Simplified Recipe • Super Crispy Pork Belly 脆皮烧肉 Airfryer/ Oven • Chinese Roasted Pork
https://youtu.be/wPZbCUa0Vck

Super Easy Chinese Braised Pork Belly Buns 扣肉包 Kong Bak Bao Recipe | Chinese Pork Recipe
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By cooking at home means you can ensure that you and your family eat fresh and wholesome meals. If you never thought that you could make restaurant quality dishes at home, think again. You can definitely easily make this Chicken Chop in Plum Sauce 梅子酱鸡扒 at home. Best of all, we only pan-fried the chicken thighs so you don't have to mess your kitchen up with unnecessary deep-frying.

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Chicken Chop in Plum Sauce 梅子酱鸡扒
Ingredients:
Serves 4 - 5 pax
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Marinated chicken
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~500g (2 pieces or 17.6 oz) boneless chicken thigh
0.5 teaspoon salt
2 tablespoons white rice wine (can be omitted if you can't take alcohol)
1 tablespoon light soy sauce
1 stalk of spring onion (stem only) - crushed
A few dashes of white pepper
2 tablespoons cornflour (add about 10 mins before pan-frying)

Other ingredients
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2 cloves of chopped garlic
2 tablespoons plum paste or plum sauce (can be replaced with honey)
2 tablespoons sweet chilli sauce (can be replaced with ketchup)
2 tablespoons low sodium light soy sauce
2 tablespoons premium dark soy sauce
1 cup (250ml or 2.45 fl oz) water
2 teaspoons lemon juice
Some cornstarch solution
Some toasted sesame seed

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Spicy Chicken Hot Pot / 奇味鸡 / 鸡公煲
https://youtu.be/IDxRbFO4KAM

Hong Kong Swiss Wings 香港瑞士鸡翼
https://youtu.be/j-SoRrz31rk

Simplified Air Fryer Teriyaki Chicken Recipe
https://youtu.be/l3UAx3mzakA

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