關於 four pillars of destiny ，我們在網路上蒐集到這些相關的討論、資訊與評價

【能成功的人，絕對不粗心】
You Don't Become Successful by Being Careless

昨天早上的八字諮詢報名，我都已回覆了。沒收到我回覆的，原因不離：

一、沒有確切的出生時間。
有報名者在這欄寫 tba upon confirmation (確定諮詢後再通知）。
這位應該是沒看我最近的直播，也略過我網頁註明的條規。別把我的條規當兒戲。
在僧多粥少的情況下，我寧願把諮詢排給有準備的人。其實就算有空，我也沒想接，因為態度一開始就不對了。

二、填錯生日
有位先生把生日寫成（舉例）：05/07/2021。
我覺得應該在下一季報名，先生出來，才能有確定的八字來批命。

也有位先生寫成 05/07/198。
這是要我自己看星卜卦還是捏指神算？

表格欄裡註明要的是陽曆生日，因此填寫農曆生日的也不會回覆。

三、填錯電郵
結果我的郵件被退回。

四、曾聯絡我師父
我都懂，您也懂。一開始就來騙我這位大貴人，天在看啊～

另外，各位回覆我時，請勿以撰寫新郵件的方式。這樣我還得搜回之前的郵件，看是否有漏掉什麼，很沒有效率，會讓後面等待我回覆的客人等得更久。如果屢犯，那請恕我會取消諮詢。

過多的粗心，是一種業力的黑影。在重要的時刻粗心，那真的是鬼遮眼了。

天底下多少人都曾算過命，找師父算，找朋友算，找三姑八叔算，用電腦算，一算再算不亦樂乎，可為何真正能推翻八字四柱束縛的人卻如鳳毛麟角呢？

要改命，先學會對自己嚴格一點，看到任何蛛絲馬跡的粗心都得立志把它改過來，才能過突破自己命運的侷限。

好命，不是您要就應該有的。

所以改命前，總是有考驗，也必須有考驗，才能測出您到底是否值得好命。

要不然，就隨便吧！

📺 https://youtu.be/YZ-GgOXlDKc

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For Bazi registrations sent in yesterday, I have already replied to all. If you have yet to receive my email, very likely these are the reasons：

1) No precise birth time
One registrant wrote "tba upon confirmation" in the birth time field. I guess he must have not seen my recent FB Live, and skimmed over the rules stated on my webpage.

Don't think little of the rules I list. When I do not have enough time slots to allocate, I would rather give it to someone who comes more prepared. Actually, even if I am free, I would still not take up this request, because the attitude is wrong right at the start.

2) Wrong birthday stated
A gentleman wrote his birthday as e.g 05/07/2021.
Please register again next season after he is born. It would be a more accurate reading, when the Bazi is affirmed upon his birth.

Another gentleman wrote 05/07/198.
Mister, it's a lot of work if I need to see the stars to do divination for your birth year...

The birthday field asks for birthdays in Gregorian calendar i.e. the usual Western calendar we are familiar with. Thus, forms with Lunar birthdays written will also not get a reply.

3) Wrong email given
And my mail got bounced back...

4) Contacted my Shifu previously
I know. You also know. So don't attempt to bluff this noble benefactor. Heaven is watching.

Excessive carelessness is the shadow of negative karma. To be negligent at important moments is literally having your eyes blindfolded by ghosts.

Countless of people have gotten their fortune told. They look for Masters, seek the help of friends, get the advice of Third Aunt and Eighth Uncle, and use the computer to read their Bazi, relishing in the delight of knowing what is ahead.

But..why is it so rare for people to tear down the confines of the four pillars in their Bazi?

To transform your destiny, you have to first learn to be stricter with yourself. When you see any traces of carelessness, you must have the determination to improve on that, to break out from the limits of your destiny.

A good Destiny is not something you should have just because you want it.

Thus on the cusp of changing your Destiny, there is bound to be tests and there definitely should be such obstacles.

To see whether you deserve the good fortunes.

If you don't wish to make the mark, then just let things be.

📺 https://youtu.be/YZ-GgOXlDKc

(English version below)

妳你的一天的開始，是怎麼樣的？妳你其实可以，給妳你自己，來個所謂的加持，讓妳你從一天的開始，到一天的結束，都有運行，都有歡喜。我們的生辰四柱裡，含藏着大量的生活解藥。堪舆學同樣的也含藏着，大量的生活解藥，可惜眾生多好逸惡勞，甘爲自己習氣的奴隸，可憐哀哉！

從我們的生辰四柱中，非常明析可見，我們一天的開始，應該幾點起床，起牀後第一件事情應做什麼？早餐應吃什麼，應喝什麼?上班應穿戴什麼？應乘搭那種交通工具？若是自己駕車，應走那條快速公路？等等。我們若懂得這些，我們每天都是勝利者，都能凱旋帰來。

但，問題是，不是每個人都懂得，這套玄學，這套神學。那怎麼辦？吾，玳瑚師父，的名片上早已教導大家，自知命苦别常吐，日行一善從中補。對任何人的一個微笑，對任何人的親切慰問，都是善啊！我們若沒能力，我們可以找有能力的去幫呀!就是不要輕易放過，錯過那難得的機會，解開歹運的束縛啊!除此之外，每天出門上班前，我們也應對着鏡中的自己，來個口袋装满錢的微笑，那妳你的每一天，就有了一定的加持，歡喜圓满。

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How do you start your day? In fact, you can give yourself a blessing, empowering you with good luck and happiness from the start of the day to the end. Hidden in the four pillars of our destiny chart lies a huge dose of antidote to our everyday sufferings. The art of Feng Shui can similarly reveal the same huge dose of antidote. A pity that a vast majority of the sentient beings are lazy and slothful, and rather remain chained to their habits and mindset. How pitiful!

It is very obvious from the four pillars of our destiny: what time should we wake up every day? What is the first thing to do after you wake up? What should you eat and drink for breakfast? What should you wear for work? What kind of transport should you take to commute? If you are driving, which route to take, etc. If we grasp this knowledge, we would be winner, return home everyday a victor.

However, the problem lies in the fact that not everyone is aware of this particular method of Chinese Metaphysics. What to do then? Master Dai Hu has long taught the way to everyone with this phrase on my name card: Knowing one's life is full of sufferings, do not complain or grumble. Instead, perform a virtuous deed everyday to make up for it. A smile to someone or a sincere word of care and concern is considered virtuous! If we do not have the means, find someone with the means to help us. The point is not to give up so easily and miss the rare opportunity to unbind yourself from your wretched destiny! Besides, you can face the mirror everyday before you leave for work and give yourself a smile that is big and wide enough to hold tonnes of money! If you do this, everyday will be filled with empowerment and joy.

(English version below)

其实我們命運的軌迹，並不是唯有在生辰四柱中，才能一覽無遗。事实上，單從一個人的行、住、坐、卧，即可了知其一生的榮枯。

來找過吾指點迷津的妳你們，應該知曉吾，玳瑚師父，就是一位有此能耐者。

在此奉勸诸位，若妳你不想做一個命枯者，用妳你最快的速度，最积极的態度，每時每刻調整妳你的坐姿。

很多的意外收獲，将自然的流入妳你生命中。

要知道，普天之下的高官權貴、富豪名人，没有一位是坐得東歪西倒的。好啦！今天就傳授妳你們，這招很棒的：一坐定江山。

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The trajectory of our destiny is not just visible from the four pillars in our Bazi. As a matter of fact, from the manner a person walks, lives, sits and sleeps, we can easily know the glory of his life, or the lack of it.

For those of you who had sought my advice, you should know that Master Dai Hu is capable of reading one's fortunes through that.

My advice to all: if you do not wish to whittle your life away, with the fastest speed and most diligent attitude you can muster, correct your sitting posture at every moment.

You will see many unexpected rewards, naturally making their way into your life.

You need to know that, all the famous people with power and wealth, and the government bigwigs with influence, do not sit with their bodies falling all over the place.

Alright! Today, I shall let you into this technique: How you sit determines your empire.