SHOULD YOU QUIT YOUR JOB NOW?
“You have to help me quit my job!”
Even though the video was off, I could tell from Bria’s voice that she was in tears. This strong woman couldn’t keep herself together anymore.
“You’re experiencing strong emotions now. That’s very natural,” I said, wanting to help her feel safe and accepted.
After all, Bria and I had only met once in an event. Knowing that I was a coach, she reached out the next day to see if I could help.
If there’s anything I’ve learned from my years of coaching, it’s that when the person is emotional, you need to give them the space to feel it.
So as Bria sobbed, I stayed silent, feeling my belly rise and fall with each breath. After a short while, I could sense that her wave of emotion had passed.
“Shall we take one long easy breath together?” I asked.
I heard her breathing with me. I paused, allowing Bria the time to settle, then I asked her to tell me what’s so difficult to her about her job.
After listening to her sharing, I said: “I can definitely help you, Bria.” I heard a sigh of relief on the other end. “But only if you promise me you won’t quit your job yet.”
3 months after that conversation, Bria waltzed in my office one evening holding a bottle of red wine: “Let’s celebrate!”
She had a giddy grin on her face, the very special grin with a dimple that I’d come to love after many hours supporting her. “Oh! Is it okay for us to drink a glass of wine in our coaching session?” She asked.
I laughed: “Of course. What are we celebrating?”
Bria said, her face brightened even more: “I just realized today that I have the perfect job!”
The most fascinating thing about this story is that the “perfect job” she referred to was the exact same job she had practically begged me to help her quit.
Bria’s circumstances hadn’t changed. But her experiences of the circumstances had changed 180 degrees. Why? Because she did.
Bria’s story teaches me once again, that life is truly created from the inside out.
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Tell Me (What Is Love)
作詞/作曲/編曲: Yoo Young Jin
歌詞翻譯:creepei@PTT-EXO 歌詞來源:melon
YEAH PLAY ANOTHER SLOW JAM
THIS IS MY PROPERTY
TELL ME WHAT IS LOVE
想裝作忘了你不愛我
使盡一切方法努力生活
你的模樣卻總是在腦海中揮之不去
你到底算什麼讓我看來如此可憐
就算是責備 我也會釋懷
為什麼你一句話都不肯留下
就這樣離我而去
還沒準備好與你分離
Wait a minute
這份等待過於漫長
It has no limit
不管怎麼呼喊你都得不到回應
只剩下我的回音
厭惡失去你卻能苟活的自己
這份感情總有一天會消逝的吧
Oh tell me what is love
Tell me what is love
看著我的雙眼說出的那兩個字
就像是烙印般令人心痛
我的心從此開始懂了些什麼
OH TELL ME WHAT IS LOVE
TELL ME WHAT IS LOVE
HEY BABY PLEASE STOP
請停下你遊移的腳步
就算是現在也好 NO NO NO
說謊也無所謂
我只是想要知道理由
到底為什麼你總是要將我推開
這樣看來向著你的心意是否太自私了呢
無法逃離這些思緒
究竟這樣是不是真正的愛情呢
還沒準備好與你分離
Wait a minute
這份等待過於漫長
It has no limit
不管怎麼呼喊你都得不到回應
只剩下我的回音
厭惡失去你卻能苟活的自己
這份感情總有一天會消逝的吧
該送你離開了
Oh tell me what is love
Tell me what is love
看著我的雙眼說出的那兩個字 YEAH
就像是烙印般令人心痛
我的心從此開始懂了些什麼
Oh tell me what is love
Tell me what is love
就算是過了很久的時間
我還是停留在原地
就像保留著幸福瞬間的照片一般
讓我靜止不動 YEAH
沒事吧 大家都問我沒事吧
一點點地在斑駁
碎裂的心靈如此疼痛 SO BAD
請不要離我太遠
OH YEAH
NO BABY YOU OH
NO NO NO NO NO NO
I'M NOT A KIND OF STEEL YEAH
厭惡失去你卻能苟活的自己
這份感情總有一天會消逝的吧
Oh tell me what is love
Tell me what is love
看著我的雙眼說出的那兩個字 YEAH
就像是烙印般令人心痛
我的心從此開始懂了些什麼
Oh tell me what is love
Tell me what is love
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