《情字這條路》The Path of Love
(English version below)
昨天的情人節，妳你過得快樂嗎？
這首歌，吾常唱給吾女朋友聽。她很喜歡聽吾唱這曲子。
年少時，曾想要有一段轟轟烈烈的愛情，這段愛情也真的有夠吾受的。（一笑）
雖然痛苦多過於快樂，但我沒有後悔過，我反而很感恩那段感情，因爲她讓我更成熟，更歷練。
我心中沒有恚怒，只有感恩那段讓我經過世間感情的洗禮，吾方能把個人的情感發揮到博愛的精神。
感情，不過是生命的一個過程。要經歷過這個過程，我們才會成長。
想想看，吾那段感情如果成功，今天如何會有玳瑚師父呢？以吾對感情如此的執著，跟憧憬，吾一定會是個以家庭为重的男人，多過於是個師父，更不可能廿多年來，給眾生這麼多的時間，因爲女方一定不允許。
情感，是我們生命中的一部份而已。
它豐富我們的人生閱歷。祇要付出過，專一過，那結局已經不是在我們控制的範圍裡面，因爲人與人之間，必竟是有因有果的。
我們應該繼續爲人生開創另一個高峰。
而且還有爸爸媽媽養育之恩還沒有報，所以因此不要有一種想不開的念頭。
每一段愛情當中，會增加我們的感情成熟度，到了將來若有因緣組織家庭的時候，應該更能夠勝任。
婚姻是婚姻，妳你是妳你。不要因爲婚姻，而迷失自己，也不要因爲婚姻，和自己的自私，而讓妳你真心愛的人迷失。
(在電話中隨意哼了這曲子，弟子就迅速將它收錄在視頻內，怎麼就是有種被自己弟子害的感覺？（笑）若唱得不如妳你意，請多多包涵。）
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Did you have a happy Valentine's Day yesterday?
This is the song I often sang to my girlfriend. She loved my serenade.
When I was much younger, I always had the dream of an earth-shattering romance. Well, this same dream wound me up quite badly too. (laughs)
Although there were more pains than joy, I have no regrets. Instead, I am very grateful for this relationship because I became more mature and experienced.
I have no anger, only gratitude for this fire baptism of mortal love, which allows my love towards a single person to transcend to Universal Love.
I have no anger, only gratitude for this fire baptism of mortal love, which allows my love towards a single person to transcend to Universal Love.
A relationship is only a phase in our life journey. We need to go through it to experience personal growth.
Come to think about it, if my romance had been successful, there would be no Master Dai Hu today. With my strong attachment to feelings and longing for love, I would have surely been a family man. I would not have given sentient beings 20 over years of my time, as the lady of my heart would not have allowed it.
Relationship is only a part of our life.
It enriches us. As long as we put effort faithfully into one, the ending is not within our control, because there is always karmic causes and consequences between 2 persons.
We should continue to create yet another peak in our lives.
Furthermore, we have yet to repay the debt of gratitude to our parents for raising us, therefore please do not have any thought of ending your life.
Every romance strengthens our love maturity, and if ever there is an affinity to form your own family unit, you shall be a better man/woman for it.
Marriage should not be inseparable from your own self. You have your own identity. Do not lose yourself in a marriage. Likewise, do not allow your loved one to lose themselves because of marriage, or your own selfishness.
(I hummed this song casually over the phone, only to have my disciple leapt into action and made it into a video. Why do I have this feeling of being set up by my own disciple? (laughs) If my singing isn't to your liking, please pardon me.)
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