關於 無奈english ，我們在網路上蒐集到這些相關的討論、資訊與評價

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和訊息談戀愛

English translation: @benkongenglish
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透過訊息關心 曖昧 羞赧
到底是和親愛的那位談戀愛？
還是跟手機訊息談戀愛？
無奈距離的分隔
只能依靠訊息思念
若有了人工智慧的戀愛訊息
是否也落入數碼情網？
無論真人與否
我們都將逕自腦補出訊息背後的完美情人
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Are we really in a relationship with our loved ones when we express our care, shyness, and even play the guessing game before a relationship starts through texts?
Or are we in a relationship with the texts on our mobile phone?
Restricted by distance, we could only share our thoughts via texts.
If there’re artificial intelligence texts, are we then weaving a love web with the AI?
Be it a real person behind or not, we will create our ideals lovers behind the screen in our minds.

有粉絲私訊⋯怎樣才能「不想離」🤣
想必防疫期間大家心情都太阿雜了
恐怕是⋯
孩子們生父與生母的連結⋯
變緊密了⋯也多了摩擦⋯
更可能⋯越看越討厭😱

千萬嗯湯喔！
來來來😚😚😚

週末夜深人靜的時候
趁孩子入睡後
生父與生母們，
一起坐在客廳，調點微弱燈光
一人一杯紅酒、想著相遇的第一天

保仁醫師與芙蘿拉 來為大家點一首
#周興哲的「永不失聯的愛」🥰
（好好聽喔😍好好聽喔🥰好好聽喔😍）
緩解一下最近相看兩討厭的心情😂

拜託～
請對彼此的愛意⋯帶到週末OK！
我們要手牽手一起救台灣後齁😜

#響應一下衛生福利部 #總柴家中點歌
衛福部真的有說 連接看這裡👇
https://www.facebook.com/470265436473213/posts/1886863361480073/?d=n
只是⋯我覺得總柴點的歌都太孤了

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永不失聯的愛

作詞：饒雪漫 作曲：周興哲

親愛的你躲在哪裡發呆
有什麼心事還無法釋懷
我們總把人生想得太壞
像旁人不允許我們的怪

每一片與眾不同的雲彩
都需要找到天空去存在
我們都習慣了原地徘徊
卻無法習慣被依賴

你給我 這一輩子都不想失聯的愛
相信愛的征途就是星辰大海
美好劇情 不會更改是命運最好的安排
你是我 這一輩子都不想失聯的愛
何苦殘忍逼我把手輕輕放開
請快回來 想聽你說 說你還在

(間奏)

走過陪你看流星的天台
熬過失去你漫長的等待
好擔心沒人懂你的無奈
離開我誰還把你當小孩
我猜你一定也會想念我
也怕我失落在茫茫人海
沒關係只要你肯回頭望
會發現我一直都在

你給我 這一輩子都不想失聯的愛
你的每條訊息都是心跳節拍
每秒都想 擁你入懷 全世界你最可愛

你是我 這一輩子都不想失聯的愛
就算你的呼吸遠在千山之外
請你相信 我給的愛值得你愛

【天青色等煙雨，而我在等你】(English writing below)

我看著客人眼淚
滴滴答答的打在桌面上
筆記本
濕了
本子上的字
糊了

她的心酸
猶如洪泉遇到崩裂的堤壩
一波一浪的破牆而出

一個被愛情辜負的女子
看了真是心疼

我不由自覺的
想到了自己

你懂我的
像我這樣剛烈的女子
爲了愛情
我絕不退縮
祇是一個勇字
又豈能成事呢

童年
過得心驚膽顫
家裡常吵得
雞犬不寧

爸爸沒想要
把我生下
媽媽常說
要把我趕出去

我很努力讀書
我很努力做個乖孩子
我覺得我做得很好
人小小本事很大
但這些終究無法
讓我在美滿的家庭長大

多少個夜晚裡
我被媽媽打得
想奪門而出
永不再見
可是想到誰來照顧她
我又忍下來

我很恨
為何我命運不如人

第一次談戀愛時
我是多麼多麼的雀躍
內心裡的煙花
不斷地爆開
我終於等到了
不再是
沒人要的孩子了

我終於
值得有人愛了

初戀的絢麗
卻也如七彩美麗的煙花
一聲巨響後
就消失在漆黑的夜裡

他常常在我面前
提到他如何深愛著
他中學時的校花
她是如此的美好

有一次
這校花來我們的學校
他得知後
破課室的門而出
沒見到她
他哭了一整個星期

心中的不安
讓我常常與他吵架
三年零八個月裡
我不是一個好女友
服滿兵役後
他喜歡上大學迎新會
的一位混血兒

後來
我和一位校友打了幾次桌球
某夜
他在ICQ向我索吻
對他的印象
就一落千丈了
（你以為老娘在賤賣嗎？）
不久一位朋友告訴我
他約會的對象
不只我一個

我有一位
很好很好的朋友
我在新加坡時
他常陪我
深夜打桌球到清晨
聊佛法聊人生
一起上佛學班
一起學國標舞
從未有一個人
如此瞭解我的心
如此照顧著我

但無所不談的當兒
他也不斷告訴
這麼多年來
他如何愛念著
一個女孩
對她始終無法忘懷

我又輸給
活在記憶中的人了

我這一份單戀
長達兩年
很磨人很磨人很磨人
差一點走不出來

第二次談戀愛
他常在我面前提起
一個他追了半年追不到的女孩
他說
有一天一定要去問她
為什麼不選擇他

在家裡的毒打
並沒有隨著我成人
而停止

後來拜師學藝
卻因爲品德不良
被師父一句
「你不是我要找的人。」
斷然吃了閉門羹

那天我哭得痛徹心扉
覺得自己
好像是
個沒人要的孩子

方文山因爲
八百年前
宋徽宗皇帝御批的這句
「雨過天青雲破處」
而在周傑倫《青花瓷》裡
寫了『天青色等煙雨，而我在等你』

他說
愛情里最無力的無奈
就是「等待」
天青色得等待
不知何時會降的雨
雨停
積雲散去
朗朗晴空中
天青色才能顯現
如同我
只能被动而安静的
等待着
不知何时才会出现的妳。

慢慢的
我開始認為
我這輩子等不到了
月老應該沒幫我
綁上紅線

學佛多年後
忽然恍然大悟
一個道理
没有东西是必须拥有的
沒有它
也不代表自己的不足

愛情
是一個填不滿的慾望
所以愛情劇長紅

在2015年2月21日年初三，根本上師蓮生活佛在台灣中天綜合電視台的訪談中說：https://youtu.be/EPDxwSt6a5I （時間12:08）

「師尊本身的愛是這樣的。我既然愛她，就是要她幸福，不是要佔有她，這種愛不是佔有，其實愛不是佔有。如果愛是佔有的話，那就是屬於慾望。如果愛不是佔有，我是祝福她，雖然我愛她，她不愛我，她愛別人，我就祝福她。如果愛別人會比較幸福，我就祝福她。這種愛就不是佔有的愛。如果是佔有的愛，一定會產生痛苦。」

原來我真正在等的
是自己
自己的智慧開了
心變闊達時
才不會讓他人決定
自己幾時可以幸福
可以幸福多久
命運在我手中
怎麼走本來就是我說了算

我輕輕的拿起桌上的紙巾，遞給女客人。她一把鼻涕，一把眼淚的向我道謝。

借了師父慣用的笑話，我柔聲細語的說：「別哭，新加坡缺水，要哭要到蓄水池哭，這樣我們可以少看馬來西亞的臉色做人。」

她破涕而笑。

我再說：「我看了妳的八字，現在又看到妳真人，勸你跟我講話老實一點，要不然我幫不到妳。妳明明一直做人家的小三，還敢跟我哭沒有男人要和妳結婚？妳不也偷偷拿了他不少錢嗎？我看妳明明就是一張愛錢的臉。」

奉勸各位大俠，在我面前，若要用眼淚爲武器，請三思，因爲虛偽的，我必定拆你面具。

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I looked at the teardrops of my client, pitter patter onto the table top. My client's notebook got wet. The words got muddled.

All the pains in her heart were like the angry river crushing through a broken dam, tearing down the walls as the tears flowed.

To see a lady being let down by love was indeed heart-breaking.

I couldn't help but thought of myself.

You know me. An unyielding character like mine will not shrink like a coward in the name of love. Alas, there are things in life that can't be accomplished solely with courage.

My childhood was filled with a lot of fear. There were often quarrels at home.

My dad didn't want me to be born. My mum often said she wanted to chase me out of the house.

I studied very hard. I did my utmost to be an obedient kid, and I thought I did very well as young child but I was already very capable. However, all these were not enough for me to grow up in a complete family.

So many nights, I got beaten up so badly by my mum that I wanted to just break out of the door and never to see her again. But the mere thought of nobody looking after her pulled me back.

I hated so much. Why wasn't my destiny comparable to other people?

When I first fell in love, I was so elated. The fireworks in my heart exploded non-stop. I finally found someone. I was no longer that child which nobody wanted. I was finally worthy of someone's love.

The splendour of first love, however, was as temporal as the rainbow-coloured fireworks. After a loud explosion, it vanished into the darkness of night.

He would often tell me in my face, how much he pined for and loved his secondary school crush, apparently the prettiest and most perfect girl in school.

Once, this campus belle came to our school. When he got wind of the news, he dashed out of the classroom. Failing to see her, he cried for one whole week.

My insecurity caused me to quarrel with him often. In those 3 years and 8 months, I wasn't a great girlfriend. After his NS, he got together with a girl of mixed blood at his university's Orientation camp.

I played pool with a uni mate a few times. One night over ICQ, he teased me for a kiss. My impression of him dropped like hot cakes. Did I look like I was lelong-ing myself? Later, a girl pal told me that he was dating several girls at the same time.

I had a very good friend. Whenever I was in Singapore, he would accompany me to play pool till wee hours. We talked about Dharma, life, and we attended Buddhism and ballroom dancing classes together. I had never met a person who understood me and took care of me so well.

But among our endless conversations of everything and anything, he always told me how he still loved a girl from his school. He couldn't forget her.

Again, I lost to someone who lived in the memory of the guy I liked.

This one-sided love of mine burned for two years. It was very, very, very excruciating. I almost didn't make it out alive.

In my second relationship, the boyfriend would always tell me about a pretty girl whom he pursued for half a year, but failed to win her heart. He told me firmly that if he had the chance, he wanted to ask her why she did not choose him.

The abusive beating at home did not stop even after I grew up.

Later on, when I wanted to become Shifu's disciple, he turned me down flat because he didn't think I had good morals and values. He was blunt, "You are not the person I am looking for."

That night, I cried painfully hard. Suddenly, I felt like I was the kid from my childhood whom nobody wanted.

800 years ago, Emperor Huizong of Song Dynasty wrote in an imperial decree "雨過天青雲破處". It was this that inspired Vincent Fang (方文山) to write the lyrics 『天青色等煙雨，而我在等你』in Jay Chou's song 青花瓷 (Blue and white porcelain).

Vincent Fang said, the most powerless kind of helplessness in love was waiting.

The sky green colour had to wait for the rain, which it had no idea when it would arrive. After the rain stopped, the thick clouds dissipated, in the clear skies, the sky green colour would then be able to appear. This was just like how he could only passively and quietly wait, for his lady whom he had no idea when she would appear.

Gradually, I started thinking that in this lifetime, I would not be able to wait for that person to appear. Perhaps Yue Lao (the elderly celestial under the moon) did not tie the red string on me.

After many years of learning the Dharma, one day, I suddenly came to the realisation that nothing is a must to own.

Secular love is a black hole of desires. That is why romantic shows are evergreen.

On 21 February 2015, the 3rd day of the Lunar New Year, my Root Guru Living Buddha Lian-Sheng spoke in an interview with the Taiwan CTI Television Inc.: https://youtu.be/EPDxwSt6a5I （timestamp 12:08）

"My personal take on love is this. Since I love her, I will want her to be blissful, and not to possess her. Such love isn't possession. Actually love isn't possession. If love is possession, that belongs to desire. If love isn't desire, I will wish her well. Although I love her, she doesn't love me, but loves another person, so I will give her my best wishes. If loving another person brings her more happiness, I will wish her well. Such love isn't possessive love. If it is possessive love, there will surely be pain."

Then I realised, the one that I had been waiting all along for is myself. Waiting for my wisdom to develop, waiting for my heart to be more open, so that I would not place my happiness in the hands of another person, and let the person decide for me when I should be happy, for how long I can stay happy...

My destiny is in my hands. How it pans out is up to me to say.

I gently picked up a serviette from the table and passed it to my lady client. In a mush of mucus and tears, she thanked me.

Borrowing an old joke from Shifu, I gently told her, "Don't cry. Singapore lacks water. If you want to cry, you should cry at a nearby reservoir. This way, we don't have to see the colours of Malaysia in order to get more water."

She broke into a smile among her tears.

I continued, "After looking at your Bazi, and now that I have seen you in person, I advise you to be more honest with me, or else I will not be able to help you. You have all along been a mistress to other men, and you dare to come crying to me that no man wanted to marry you? Didn't you also stole some money from them? The way I see you, you obviously have a money grubber face."

My advice to all swordsmen: If you wish to use your tears as a weapon in front of me, think thrice. Because if you are a hypocrite, I will definitely rip your mask apart.

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⬇️ ENGLISH BELOW ⬇️
ALLSAINTS WITH YOU
防疫新生活 讓你的居家細節更有態度?

這次ALLSAINTS邀請來自健身訓練、花藝美學、音樂創作、調酒及烹飪，五種產業透過影片，分享居家生活也有它的樂趣，在家也是豐富多彩✨
6月3日周四晚上9點開始，@allsaintstaiwan 總共8支IGTV影片連續兩周九點上新。

這次的主題是居家即興創作：
挑戰用小小房間裡隨手可得的物品即興創作，
生活小物都可以是你的音樂素材！

好奇這首歌是怎麼做到嗎？
請看這裡的IGTV ? https://www.instagram.com/p/CPsvp_lHb0p/

#AllSaintsTaiwan
#ASwithYou

@allsaintstaiwan

Thank you ALLSAINTS for inviting me to participate in your newest series - ALLSAINTS with you, inviting people from different backgrounds from flower arrangement, bar tending, fitness and music to share what we’re doing at home during quarantine.

Starting from 6/3, there will be a new video at 9PM on their channel covering different topics.

Today’s challenge: make a music by sampling random objects at home!

Curious about the process?
Watch it all on IGTV here ? https://www.instagram.com/p/CPsvp_lHb0p/
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歌詞：

So it’s just me and my friends
在Facebook上面聊天
外面太大風險
還是家裡安全
When it’s me and no friends

感謝有網路的存在
如果沒他我們現在
會是有多麼的無奈
完全是無能的一代

就算家裡突然沒有菜
還是可以拿起手機來
隨便在網上叫個外賣

It’s just me and my friends
在IG上面留言
還是室內保險
不出門也省錢
When it’s me and no friends

#香港秘景 #翻唱 #翻唱歌 #香港打卡位 #香港行山 #coversong #cover #剪愛 #張恵妺
💜 想聽什麼翻唱歌可以留言

剪愛
歌詞：
人變了心　言而無信　人斷了情　無謂傷心
我一直聆聽　我閉上眼睛　不敢　看你的表情

滿天流星　無窮無盡　我的眼淚　擦不乾淨
所以絕口不提　所以暗自反省　終於　我掙脫了愛情

把愛　剪碎了隨風吹向大海　有許多事　讓淚水洗過更明白
天真如我　張開雙手以為撐得住未來　而誰擔保愛永遠不會染上塵埃

把愛　剪碎了隨風吹向大海　越傷得深　越明白愛要放得開
是我不該　怎麼我會眷著你眷成依賴　讓濃情在轉眼間變成了傷害

我剪不碎舊日的動人情懷　你看不出來　我的無奈


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這段時間大家都過得好嗎？最近疫情嚴峻，又停電、停水，突然變得好焦慮。這幾天在家的時間變長了，多了很多時間思考，10場活動被取消，除了無奈，也很無力。而我發現我的焦慮來自於「未知」，不知道未來會發生什麼事讓我感到恐慌。
薛西弗斯的神話告訴我們，「不要害怕徒勞無功」，在這厭世感的時刻，很多事情無法改變，但我們可以改變自己的心態，換個角度想，我們要珍惜活在世上的每一天，感謝我們擁有的一切。生活中97%都是不可控制的，我們只要做好3%就夠了。
教大家一個方法，每天寫三件感恩的事，心情真的會變好喔！

節目的最後，送給大家這首《急不來的，就讓它慢吧》: https://youtu.be/0hOMn0xkajY
要相信轉念的力量！

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Are you going through a rough time as well? There will always be things out of our control, and what we can do is accept what can’t be changed, and change what can be.

Sharing 2 simple yet powerful tips on how I dealt with feeling anxious and uneasy after the recent COVID outbreak in Taiwan. Though all my performances and music-related work were cancelled due to the semi-lockdown now, I am learning as well to let go and let it be.

Grateful for this podcast and grateful for you. Let’s get through this together! We got this!

**Song at the end “Take It Slow” (急不來的，就讓它慢吧): https://youtu.be/0hOMn0xkajY

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