關於 10 days old baby sleep ，我們在網路上蒐集到這些相關的討論、資訊與評價

People always ask me “how do you handle 2 kids, work, maintain a good rs with your husband, have a social life and take care of your own well being at the same time?” My answer is... I DON’T 😂 I don’t always have it all together, even if it seems like I do.

Becoming a mom at 21 was never part of my plan, and the younger Naomi would’ve never imagined herself becoming a mom of two by 25.

There were definitely days when I miss my life before the kids (i think it’s completely normal & okay to feel this way) and days I just wanna stay in the shower a little longer so I can avoid playing fight with my 3 year old toddler lol

I miss hanging out late without having to go on the baby monitor every 5 mins to check on the kids/frantically looking at the time on my phone’s screen and calculating how many hours of sleep I’d be left with if I stayed out for a little longer, I miss going wherever I want and doing whatever I like without worrying about pumping/sleep/school/feeding schedules, I miss not worrying.

But are u f kidding me? Did I go through 2 x 10 months of pregnancy just to tell you I wanna be alone and go back to my old life? Shut up. 😂

I do miss my life before the kids, but you know what I’ll miss more? I’ll miss feeling this way one day when my kids are no longer kids anymore. Just like they always say, “the days are long but the years are short.” So I’ll hug them a little tighter and carry them a little longer while I can, because these will be moments I’ll miss the most.

Motherhood has given me a combination of my worst days and my best days - it has taught me about unconditional love, selflessness, patience, compassion, resilience, failure, pain, happiness and more things about myself I never knew before.

I’m who I am today because of them and I’ll never trade my beautiful children for anything else in the world.

Being a mom isn’t an easy job, so thank you every mama out there for your love, support and guidance! Today, we celebrate US. Happy Mother’s Day ❤️

Truth be told, I've never felt really 'confined' in my last three confinements. After all, this is a Mama who took her 1-month-old newborn to travel to Stockholm in icy cold winter, wore shorts to sleep in an air conditioned room after giving birth, showered nearly every day, brought a 10-day-old to the cinema and then a 12-day-old to the River Safari, was constantly on the move and basically one who is more liberal and doesn't conform to rules.

However, knowing that this would be my last confinement and heeding friends' advice to take extra effort to nourish and care for my body, I did. This time round, I only went out when I had to bring the baby for his checkups or to see my gynae, and made one visit to the park when the kids were really bored and I wanted some fresh air too. Other than that, I was home almost all the time and I ate confinement food, took tonics, showered less, wore pants and bedroom slippers, and rested more than I did before.

Okay, about rest, I guess it was still scarce as we don't have a confinement lady or helper and the baby was under my care 24/7, not to mention having to look after the older ones too. Also, I still wanted to do the things I always do, like crafting and video making, because these kept me busy and brought me joy. And so I did. I think it's really important to find a way to relieve stress so you can stay positive, strong and motivated during this tough period of handling a new addition to the family. 乐观的心态很重要，对吗?

In this "Happiness is..." post, it's about enjoying my confinement month and all the things I did to keep myself happy, even though there were surely the challenging days too.

SUNAT ANAK KETIKA BAYI, SUNNAH YANG DILUPAKAN

Orang arab panggil khitan, orang melayu pula sebut khatan atau sunat, orang-orang tua sebut 'masuk jawi'.

Ramai yang tak tahu, sunat meng'khatan'kan bayi pada hari ke-7.
...Continue ReadingCIRCUMSTANCES WHEN A BABY, A FORGOTTEN SUN

Arabs call khitan, Malays mention circumcision or circumcision, the old people say 'enter jawi'.

Many people don't know, circumcision will make baby circumcision on the 7. th day

Yes, apart from aqiqah, shaving hair, and giving name, circumcision also among the sunnah of his majesty SAW on the 7th day of birth.

Baby is suitable for circumcision as soon as birth to 4 months old. After that, it's quite difficult to be circumcised, because the baby is starting to lie down.

Sadly, many do not know or miss this sunnah circumcision. It's also a custom for the Malays to circumcise their son when they're late for children.

From Jabir bin ' Abdillah ra; that Rasulullah saw implemented Hasan and Husain's aqiqah and Husain and proceeded both on the sevent (HR; Thabrani and Baihaqi)

From Ibnu ' Abbas ra said,
′′ There are seven things that include the sunnah of the baby on the seventh day: Named, circumcised,...." (HR; Thabrani)

From Abu Ja ' far ra said,
′′ Fathimah carried out his son's aqiqah on the seventh day. He also shaved and shaved his hair as well as the silver as the weight of his hair." (HR; Ibn Abi Syaibah)

Alhamdulillah, Taqi & Zaki we circumcised their time 3 months.

We're a little late. But for some people they ask, why is it so early?

Among the reasons why many choose to miss the child's circumcision:
1. Don't know the circumcision between the sunnah of the 7th day and better be hastened.
2. Pity and worry, afraid that the baby is sick.
3. I haven't reached the heart to see the circumcision process and watch the baby cry
4. Want children to feel the experience of being circumcised.

Circumcision is sunnah. So it's a religious guide. Islam is not wrong, but Islam is rahmah's religion.

So, don't think about ' poor baby ', afraid that baby is sick and so on. Because Islam will not be wronged by its people. While in animals Islam teaches rahmah's nature, this is what happens to babies. So of course there's rahmah when we're circumcising our baby.

Among the advantages of circumcision as a baby:

1. Babies lack of pain, because baby skin is still soft. baby sleeps a lot. Just like us, if we sleep, all the pain will be gone.

2. Baby wounds heal fast, as early as 5-7 days.

3. Babies don't need to confinement. Even parents don't need to get tired of taking care of children's abst Because the food is only milk.

4. Babies are not blocked by the move. Because the baby's work is lying down and sleeping.

5. Babies won't be afraid. Because babies still have no fear. Different from children, they already know the meaning of fear.

6. Parents don't need to be tired of persuading their children so they agree to circumcise Because baby is ready to surrender to be circumcised.

7. Circumcised babies can avoid the disease. Some children who have not been circumcised will be affected by blind urine. So, finally the doctor recommended to be circumcised soon.

8. Parents are also not tired of taking care of babies after circumcision. Because the care is very easy.

Isn't this all proof of sunnah rahmah? Ease baby's affairs and ease parent s' affairs.

If mom or dad are afraid, maybe we can try not to watch the circumcision process. Let her baby nenda or uncle accompany her. Don't be because of our shortcomings, the sunnah has to be missed.

If the circumcision experience is sought,
Hmmm, there are many other experiences that the child can find. At least, you can record the circumcision process using your handphone. When you grow up, show back to the child.

It's here, the custom is changed to sunnah.
Don't be because according to our custom to leave sunnah.
Sunnah is more important.

You don't lose your child's circumcision
Actually, they will be very grateful because their parents chose to circumcise them early.

How many mothers regret that they didn't regret because they didn't circumcise their children when they were little.

If something has been missed, it's okay. Continue to find the right time to circumcise your children. InsyaAllah it will be eased

Khitan has two times, mandatory time and sunnah time. The mandatory time is when the age of baligh, and the sunnah time is before. Ibnu Hajar the best time to do the circumcision is on the seventh day after birth and does not slow down the circumcision so that the time is mandatory unless there is a certain excuse or cause. (Fathul Bari 10/342).

Let's follow the sunnah :)

Thank God, the process of Taqi & Zaki circumcision is all made easy. I'm not awake either, live like normal days. Day 3 of our circumcision has gone on holiday in Terengganu.. hehe..

We are circumcised with Dr. Khairuddin at Taqwa clinic, Ipoh. Dr Khairuddin is very experienced. Her work is very thorough and neat.

Cost of only RM140 including medicine. It's pretty cheap than most normal places. If it's in KL Selangor area, we survey the price of about RM250- 400. That's what we do in Ipoh, save money! Hehe..

Time to circumcise the baby, Dr. Khairuddin shows the 'palat' that is inside the penis Taqi & Zaki, the doctor also said,

′′ Look, even the baby's palat has many like this, imagine if the 12-year-old is not circumcised anymore. Many have been accumulated in there ".

This is a piece of our experience. We were not able to follow the sunnah for Taqi & Zaki circumcision on the 7th day due to health and various matters. So we can only follow the sunnah to hurry to circumcise them.

Islam is very beautiful. There must be a lot of wisdom behind the sunnah circumcision when a baby.

Our children also look more macho and handsome when they're married 😎

Good morning..

Nur Shazareen
Mama to 2 macho heroes & a heroin ayuTranslated