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【恨む時間の減らし方】

いつも、「一筆書きで喋っている」と言いますか、終わりどころとか何も考えずに、フラッと喋っているので、喋っている自分に気づかされることが時々あります。

それこそ、昨日、「嫌いな人がいない」と言ったんですが、そういえば、僕、本当に嫌いな人がいないんです。
嫌いな行動はいくつかありますよ。
なので、「人としてできている」というわけではないです。ヤリチンだし。


喋ってみて、「あれ？ なんで僕は嫌いな人がいないんだっけ？」と、そこで初めて考え出すわけですが、昨日の場合だと、『「意見」と「人格」を分けて考えているから』ということで片付くんですね。

あとは、そこそこ忙しいから、わざわざ「嫌いな人」を作って、そこに時間を割くのが面倒だと思っているのかもしれません。

「映画『えんとつ町のプペル』の公開まで、あと２ヶ月」というタイミングで、不倫をした有名人に時間と感情を割いている場合じゃないじゃないですか。
心の底からどうでもいいんで。

なので、ツイッターとかで有名人の不倫に対して、怒りのツイートとかしている人がいたら、ソッコーでフォローを外します。
他人の不倫なんて、僕の人生において、１秒も必要がない時間なので。
バシバシと(笑)


で、「嫌い」繋がりでいうと、そういえば僕は何かを「恨む」みたいなこともないんです。

ここはハッキリしておきたいのですが、僕は、たとえば当時のクラウドファンディングをした時とか、絵本を無料公開した時とか、「ひな段」以外に活躍の場所を求めた時とか、「何か新しい挑戦をした時にはその都度、日本中から批判された」ということをよく言います。

これは批判してきた人を攻撃しているわけでも、恨んでいるわけでもなくて、「皆、『正しいか正しくないか』で判断していなくて、『知らないもの』を脊髄反射的に批判する傾向があって、それは、巡り巡って皆の首を絞めることになるから、批判をするのならば、キチンと咀嚼した上で、批判しようね」という注意喚起です。

とにかく僕は話を前に進めたいヤツなんです。
そこに下心なんて一切ない。
皆と面白いことをしたいだけです。


「いやいや、本当は金儲けでしょ」とか言われるのですが、そんなものには一切興味がない。

僕の生活費と、僕がエンタメに投資している額および、被災地や貧困国に支援している額の比率を聞いたら、ドン引きすると思います(笑)。
ちなみに僕のレギュラーの生活費は貧乏大学生とさして変わりません。

嘘だと思うのなら、僕の近しいスタッフに聞いてみてください。
贅沢なんかには、興味がないんです。
世の中には、そういうやつがいるんです。僕です。



話を戻します。



「恨む」って、かなり長い時間を奪われるじゃないですか？

そう考えると、なるべく恨まない方がいいですよね？

となると、ちょっとややこしいですが、自分の人生において「恨む確率」を減らした方がいいと思うんですね。

その時、「避けることができない恨み」と「避けることができる恨み」を分けた方がいいと思っています。

たとえば、「大切な家族が被害者になってしまった」ということで発生する恨みは、なかなか避けられないと思うんですね。

ここはもう諦める。

じゃあ、「避けることができる恨み」って何なんだ？　と考えた時に、結論、「代替案を作ることができる問題」だと僕は思っています。



たとえば、映画『えんとつ町のプペル』のプロモーションとして、もともと全国の映画館をまわって、映画『えんとつ町のプペル』のストーリーを全部喋るイベントを開催しようとしていたんです。

で、各映画館をおさえて、スケジュールも組んで、「じゃあ、始めるぞ！」となったタイミングで、コロナが来ちゃって、全部白紙になったんですね。

そこで、どこだけブーブー言おうが、コロナがフッと消えることはないので、「じゃあ、オンラインに切りけるか？」となって、白紙になった３日後にはクラウドファンディングを立ち上げて、そのリターンで「映画の宣伝を兼ねたオンライン講演会」とか、「それこそストーリーを全部喋る会のオンライン版」を出したんです。

一回の講演会で１万人を超える人が集まって、結果、オフラインで全国を回るよりも多くの人に届けることができたので、「ああ、これはこれで、良かったね〜」となった。



でも、それって、僕が「クラウドファンディング」という選択肢を持っていたからだし、オンラインイベントも慣れまくっていたから、「じゃあ、こっちに舵を切ろうか」となったわけで、そんなものを一切持っていなくて、そんな選択肢があることを知らなかったら、コロナに全部持っていかれたわけだから、「コロナが憎い」となったと思うんです。

代替案がなければ、奪われちゃうんですね。
だから、奪った人や現象を恨んでしまう。


つまり、「恨み」というのは、知識不足が生んでいる。



物事を知らなければ知らないほど、「恨む確率」が上がっちゃう。
否定ばっかりしている人って、新しい知識を入れていなくて、選択肢が極端に減っているから、恨む頻度が増えて、恨みに割いている時間が増えちゃう。

健康に気を使って８０歳まで長生きしたところで、恨んでいる時間が１０年ぐらいあったら、実質、稼働しているのは７０年なわけで、健康に気を使うのなら、それと同じモチベーションで、ちゃんと知識を入れて、恨む確率を下げた方がいいと思います。

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テレビ東京
「クロストークラウンジ」
【OA日】
11/1(日)16:00~17:15

関テレ(フジ系列全国ネット)
「華丸大吉&千鳥のテッパンいただきます」
【OA日】
11/10(火)22:00~22:54
[how to reduce time to hate]

Do you always say ′′ I'm talking with a konigs," I'm talking about the end of the day, and I'm talking to flats, so I'm sometimes aware of myself that I'm talking about.

That's why yesterday I said, ′′ I don't like anyone," but when I think about it, I don't really hate it.
There are some nasty actions.
So it doesn't mean ′′ it's made as a person," It's a yarichin.


Talk to me," what? Why don't I have a haters?" it's the first time I've ever thought about it, but in the case of yesterday, I'm thinking about ′′ opinion ′′ and ′′ personality ′′ so I'm going to finish it I'm sorry.

Later, I'm pretty busy, so I might think it's troublesome to make ′′ haters ′′ all the way and spend time there.

Isn't it the time to take time and emotions to a celebrity who has adultery at the time of ′′ 2 months until the release of the movie ′′ a town
I don't care from the bottom of my heart.

So, if anyone is doing anger tweets against celebrity adultery on Twitter or something, I will remove the follow in sotto.
The adultery of others is the time I don't need 1 seconds in my life.
With ba lol


So, when I think about it, I don't even ′′ hate ′′ something.

I want to be clear here, but when I did crowdfunding at the time, and when I published a picture book for free, I asked for a place to be active other than ′′ Hinata Dan," When I do something new, I often say that every time I have been criticized from Japan

This is not attacking people who have been criticized, but not a grudge," everyone is not judging by ′′ right or right," and the spinal cord of ′′ what I don't know ′′ I tend to criticize reflective, and it's going to strangle everyone's neck over the tour, so if you're going to criticize it, let's criticize it and criticize it

Anyway, I'm the one who wants to go forward.
There is no ulterior motive there.
I just want to do something interesting with everyone.


′′ No, no, it's actually money but I'm not interested in anything like that.

I think I'm going to pull a don off when I hear my living expenses and the amount I'm investing in entertainment and the ratio of the amount that I'm supporting in the disaster area and poverty country (lol).
By the way, my regular living expenses don't change to poor college students.

If you think it's a lie, ask my close staff.
I'm not interested in luxury.
There's something like that in the world. It's me.



I'll bring back the story.



Isn't ′′ hate ′′ going to be robbed of quite a long time?

If you think so, it's better not to grudge as much as you can, right?

It's a bit confusing, but I think it's better to reduce the ′′ probability of hate ′′ in your life.

At that time, I think it's better to separate the ′′ grudge that can't be avoided ′′ and ′′ grudge that can be avoided,"

For example, I don't think it's quite inevitable that the grudge that occurs because of ′′ the precious family has become a victim,"

I'm already giving up here.

So what is ′′ a grudge that can be avoided," When I thought about it, conclusion," I think it's a problem that can make an alternative,"



For example, as a promotion for the movie ′′ a no-in-town ′′ I was originally trying to hold an event to talk all about the story of the movie ′′ a in the town ′′ as a promotion.

So, I've been holding each movie theater, and I'm going to have a schedule, and I'm going to start," then I'm going to start!" and the corona is coming, and it's all blank.

So, how much do you say oink, but corona doesn't disappear, so," then, I'm going to cut it online?" and after 3 days of being blank, I'm going to have a crowdfunding. Standing up I raised it, and on the return, I put out the ′′ online lecture with the promotion of the movie ′′ and ′′ it's the online version of the meeting that talks all about the story,"

Over 1 million people gathered in one lecture, and as a result, they were able to deliver to more people than going around the country offline," Oh, this is it, good for you ~" It has become.



But that's because I had an option to ′′ Crowdfunding ′′ and the online event was also used to it," then I'm going to cut the rudder here," and I'm going to have a good time with that. If I didn't know that there was an option like that, I would have had it all in Corona, so i think I've become ′′ I hate corona,"

If you don't have an alternative, you'll be robbed.
So I'm going to grudge the people and the phenomenon who took it.


In other words, ′′ grudge ′′ is a lack of knowledge.



The more you don't know, the more you don't know, the more you hate,"
People who deny it don't have new knowledge, and the option is reduced to extreme, so there are more frequency to hate, and there are more time to grudge.

When you take care of your health and live long until 80 years old, if you have a grudge time for about 10 years, it's been 70 years since I've been in the middle of a long time, and I'm going to take care of my health. I think it's better to put knowledge properly and lower the probability of hate with the same motivation.

Ryo Nishino (King Kong)


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【不要縮窄你的財路】(English writing below)
DON’T SHRINK YOUR INCOME SOURCES

我今年最大的成就之一，就是幫了一位負債累累的中年客人，開創了第二條收入的來源。

他現在一年內能賺多一萬多新幣，提供一種網路服務。

我的分析仔細到，我還指出要他寫信去哪一家公司。他也只有一個選擇。

我甚至還和他解析，他在電郵中應該如何推薦自己給他的客人。依據他的八字五行所需，我教導應徵當天，他該如何穿扮及攜帶什麼來獲得勝利。

我花了很多精力和時間，嘮叨了兩個星期來說服這位客人。一般人只要年過四十，人會變得固執己見，無法接受新事物。

他不敢寫信求職，因為該公司的網站並沒有招聘那職位。

他認為工作性質太低劣了，不宜他這種高學歷高才能的人。

他對新的行業不感興趣。

他說他沒時間。

他只要賺大錢！

他愁如果做第二份工作，他沒有精力來開發他的企劃。

我說，哈咯，看看你現在的處境。

這是等著你來拿的錢。我已算出你一定會得到的。每天晚上，你只需要在家，做兩個小時以下的工作。我沒有叫你放棄你的夢想。

拿這筆錢，還債，同時也繼續去開發你的夢想。你的太太會比較開心。每個月底，你看到銀行戶口多個四位數時，你會很欣慰你並沒有把你的夜晚浪費在社交媒體上，而是從中牟利。

既然他不會在發薪員工表裡，我告訴他何不換個角度來想，自己是提供一項服務給該公司。哇！也就是說，他已是一位小型企業家，一創業就以提供簡單卻很重要的服務而賺錢。

該公司雖沒刊登廣告招聘，不代表他們不需要他的服務。這反而代表他不會面臨任何競爭。為客人辨認出他們的需求，顯示他的主動和洞察力。

是，這工作是低等的，但這算是高薪的低等工作，這樣他才有足夠的腦力，繼續為他的夢想奮鬥啊！

為了讓客人清醒過來，你看我真的是費盡唇舌啊⋯⋯

只要這錢是通過正當的手法來賺取，就不要輕易說「不要」。況且，也要想到你還欠錢的家庭。

不是每個人一開始就有這個命和本事能進大財。不要人心不足蛇吞象。

從小做起，沒什麼好丟臉的。而且我建議客人做的生意，根本也不需要像一般生意一樣下什麼成本。

快進到現在，這位中年客人說在新的行業服務，認識和他完全不一樣的新人士有種釋放的感覺

這樣的感覺就對了！要財源廣進，就是要有這樣闊達的心態。活著，不要像個糟老頭似的，錢才可以從很多方面來。

天啊，我回想自己花了多少精力來說服這位客人，心就累了。感覺很像自己在唸老公的時候（寶貝，你怎麼又不看鏡頭了呢？）

親愛的客人，如果你有閱讀此文，請買個美味可口的巧克力木桐蛋糕來感謝我這叨叨念念的功夫。這次的八字分析，我真的是做超時了⋯⋯

......................

One of my biggest accomplishments this year was helping a debt-ridden middle-aged client set up a second income stream.

He now brings in an extra low $10K+ per year for his family, with this second income of providing an online service.

I was so precise in my analysis, that I even told him which EXACT company I want him to write in to. There was only one choice suitable for him.

I sat down with him and went through the entire email, on how he should sell himself to his new client. Based on his Bazi elemental needs, I told him how to dress and what to bring to ace the interview.

It took me A LOT of pushing and nagging (2 weeks!). Because when a person is above 40 years old, he/she is very set in the way he/she does things.

He didn’t dare to write in and ask for a job, that was not listed on the media company’s website.

He thinks the job nature is too lowly for a highly-educated and qualified person like him.

He wasn’t keen in a new industry.

He said he didn’t have time.

He only wanted BIG MONEY.

He fretted that he would not have the energy to work on his pet project, if he took up the second job.

I told him, HELLO, look at where you are right now.

This is READY MONEY. I know you would be able to get it. The stars are in your favour. You only need to work a couple of hours or less, every night AT HOME with this. I am not asking you to give up your dreams.

Take the money, pay off your debts and work on your dreams AT THE SAME TIME. Your wife will be happier. Every month when the salary is banked into your account, you will be glad that you didn’t waste your nights away on social media but are actually making an income from it.

Since he wasn’t going to be on payroll, I told him to reframe his thinking as providing a service, and BAM! That means he becomes an entrepreneur, who makes profit right from the start providing a simple yet much-needed service, discounting his home WiFi bill.

The fact that it wasn’t advertised doesn’t mean his service wasn’t needed. It can mean he faces zero competition and demonstrates initiative and perception in identifying that need for his “client”.

Yes, it’s “lowly”, but hey, it’s considered a highly-paid lowly job, and he will still have the brain space to work on his dreams!

The things I say to make my clients wake up...

Don’t say no to money when you need it, as long as it is an ethical way of earning it and other families are waiting for you to repay them.

Not every person has the destiny and abilities to make big money right from the start. Don’t be greedy.

There is nothing embarrassing about starting small. Especially when you don’t even need investment costs like most businesses.

Fast forward to now, the client told me it was very liberating serving a new industry and meeting people very different from him.

EXACTLY! To receive abundant wealth from all sources, you need an open mind to match up to it. Don’t be an old man in the way you live your life. Money can come from all sources!

Gosh, I’m feeling so tired just recalling all these persuasion I had done to convince him to try. It almost felt the same as me nagging at my husband. (Darling, why are you not looking at the lens again?)

Dear client, if you’re reading this, please buy me a nice chocolate log cake to pay me for all the extra hours of nagging. This is WAY beyond my usual scope of Bazi analysis man...

【賭上靈魂的女人】

青竹蛇兒口，黃蜂尾上針，兩者皆不毒，最毒婦人心。

I have a Bazi client, who has been a social escort for over a decade.

She didn't tell me the truth at the start. In fact, she "challenged" me to use my 6th sense and offered her Bazi.

I do not need your Bazi to read you inside out. Also, Bazi analysis is a highly methodological and scientific method to understand a person's past, present and future Destiny. I'm no medium. There is no 6th sense needed.

Over the many short messages before our meeting, she expressed her shock that I could read so much from merely her words.

I didn't have her birth details at that time, nor had I seen a single photo of hers.

With the internet era, a competent Metaphysics practitioner must have the ability to dissect a person's true character and intention, even from a simple "Hi".

Impossible? Too judgmental? You just haven't met a seasoned human scanner in real life. Or you don't know the true you well enough to see the rock hard truth in our words.

While messaging me questions about a (legitimate) business of hers, I replied with a verse written by my Grandmaster, Living Buddha Lian Sheng:

"君子愛財，取之有道。
不義之財雖到手，
無限後患跟著來。"

(While wealth is covetable, a gentleman makes his wealth through just and ethical means.
Ill gotten wealth, though in your hands, will elicit endless troubles pouring your way.)

She was astounded and asked, "Do you actually know what my job is? This is shocking..."

I guess I passed her challenge with flying colours.

.

She wasn't a sex worker, due to harsh circumstances like severe poverty or mountains of heavy medical bills for her family.

A drunk gang rape incident in her uni days changed her views on men and she wanted to take revenge on men. She lived a life of drugs and alcohol in between her lectures.

The way I see it, is her obsession for money that caused her downfall.

On one hot summer day in 2006, she answered a social escort advertisement. She was barely 21 and was influenced by what she read online.

The "Mama-san" who looked her over told her she needed to put on weight.

She was surprised. Wasn't it easier to earn money with a slim figure?

The Mama-san snapped, "Nonsense. Most men dislike a woman who is too slim. They prefer those with some flesh."

She silently made a promise to herself to swallow more burgers.

Her first client was an Arabic businessman. She was paid US500 for one hour.

That virgin taste of easy money lured her deeper and deeper into the abyss.

Clients of powerful backgrounds, Singapore and overseas, single and married, private and government sectors...one-on-one, multiple players, mass orgies...

She lived like a bird freed from her cage. Suddenly she could buy anything she desired, just by sweet talking and giving lusty men access to her nubile body. She was in and out of hotels, as frequently as 5 times a day.

The carefree lifestyle, the freedom of not answering to any boss and those money that poured from the sky was her drug.

In her own words, she was "the woman that all wives curse and fear".

She referred to herself as the woman the wife will loathe to find traces of existence, when the wife checks her husband's handphone with trembling hands.

It was as if she took pride in that.

How did her cause of seeking revenge on men become a twisted path of demolishing other women's marriages?

.

It didn't take her long to accumulate 6-figures in her bank account.

The more money she had, however, the more insecure she became.

She worried about losing it all. She deeply craved the warmth of love to complete her soul.

She was only 22. The client was manly, handsome and charming. He gave her $20K for her company.

She badly wanted him for her own. To be his wife.

With $100,000 withdrawn, she gave it all to her 2nd Mama-san. She decided she would use black magic to lock his heart. And soul.

But it was a fraud. The Mama-san started exhorting from her.

She was desperate and down to her last $2. She began stealing from her family and lying to feed the incessant demands and threats from her Mama-san.

She gradually realised this was her retribution of selling her body for quick money.

However, this new realisation didn't change her a bit.

She met a new client, Dave. He was a married man. It was love at first sight for her.

The initial joy she had from the money and attention he showered her blinded her wisdom to the extramarital affair.

She stayed in one of Hong Kong's expensive apartments at a prime district. But it soon became an soulless shell of loneliness that prompted her suicide attempts.

Dave coldly dumped her like a hot potato, as he didn't wish to handle an emotionally volatile woman.

.

Ken told her she bore an uncanny resemblance to his first love. She fell hard for his sweet words and gentle demeanour.

He weaved a forlorn tale of an emotionally abusive and lonely marriage, and how it was impossible for him not to to be attracted to her.

They travelled greatly and dined at expensive restaurants.

To have a married man giving his heart to her, was like tasting the forbidden apple. That first juicy bite satiated her craving to be desired. And to win another woman.

This time, she decided she would use black magic again to break up his marriage. She coveted that role of his wife. A permanent and lasting relationship, finally.

Black magic uses the dark forces of ghosts to carry out the client's wishes. She paid a good US$10,000 for a famous sorcerer and another US$4000 for her Thai amulet and mud puppet.

Did she capture Ken in the end?

They got into physical fights crazily. The amulet that controlled the ghosts backfired, and her sanity was devoured by the ghosts.

.

Her craziness drove her to swallow 200 sleeping pills and cut her wrists. ANYTHING to have him stay with her. Ken was horrified and visited her daily at the hospital. She felt triumphant. Finally, he was at her beck and call.

The happiness was short-lived. After her discharge, he broke up with her when he was on an overseas stint.

She went absolutely berserk and grabbed a knife to her throat. It felt that the ghosts wielded full control of her mind and body. Her mum kept yelling at her.

The realisation of truth came too late for her: A man, who lied to his wife and had an affair, will never be honest with her. Once a liar, always a liar.

She was warded into the high-dependancy unit at the mental hospital. Everyday, she was surrounded by suicidal and high-risk patients. They were bounded at their feet and hands. It was a petrifying sight. Was this the end of her life? She wasn't even 28. How did she allowed a man to destroy her prime years?

She sought to understand love and karma. She delved into Buddhist books, wanting to know what caused her to lose her mind. She started to have deep regret about taking short cuts in life and her laziness in earning money the ethical way. She saw, on her hands, the fresh blood of people's happiness that she had killed.

But the greed and anxiety in her couldn't be satisfied with a regular job. Or a single man who doesn't make enough to provide for her.

She was needy, attention-seeking and quarrelsome. I had called her a yoyo. I had spent many hours over a few months, replying to her messages.

Every day, she fought hard against the temptation to take up another escort job

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「捨邪歸正」

I lost count how many Masters she sought advice from before she found me online.

She read my posts and was amazed by my tenacity to take failures.

She watched my video on suicide and became aware of the Hell that all suicide victims go to. To repeat that act of killing themselves every day at the same time they died.

Among the many things I said at our consultation, I could tell her the age range she sold herself and that it was a elder lady who gave her the chance. She was surprised at my accuracy.

I told her the only way out was to sincerely repent for her past misdeeds. Blind listening to Buddhist chants and sutras would do nothing to change her fate. That is passive. Being active is to recite it and abide by the precepts.

I instructed her to write out her story in as much details as possible, to lead other sex workers, or wannabes, suicidal people and men with affairs to the Right Path.

This was one of the fastest ways I know that can change a disastrous life around.

All the Thai amulets, crystals and pendants she stashed in her room MUST go. She spoke of their decreasing power over time, and it seemed like a never-ending black hole as she kept on buying more and more to help her legitimate business.

She asked whether she would be able to get a publisher to buy her story.

I told her to forget about making money from her book. Give it for free. Post it online. Somehow, somewhere, everywhere. Get the story out. Fast.

When her boyfriend left her a sum of money, I insisted that she returned it. Don't take money that you didn't earn it rightfully. She said that was her breakup fee. I put my feet down, and said it was a proper relationship between two singles, and she caused the breakup. Why would she need money for loving a man who had loved her?

She promised she would write her story.

But she lied to me. Just like how she lied of making the $49 donation the next day, before seeking a Bazi consultation with me.

She went to the Guan Yin Temple at Waterloo Street, and sought a divination stick. It was her favourite activity whenever she was troubled or at a dilemma.

Right after she left the temple, she messaged and questioned why she received a 下簽 (bad lot) for my recommendation.

I asked for the number of the divination lot and the actual question she posed.

"I want to write a story about my life to encourage women not to sell their bodies and for married men not to have affairs. I may be hurt or sabotaged by people, so please protect me."

That didn't sound like a question. But the Bodhisattva had a way in teaching sentient beings.

I was dumbfounded at the Bodhisattva's omnipresent accuracy and foresight, when I saw the divination number.

It was a bad lot indeed, but not because of the solution I gave to my client.

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「莊子試妻」

Zhuangzi was a famous and well-respected Chinese philosopher of the Warring States Period.

One day at the mountains, he walked past a new grave and saw a woman kneeling over the freshly turned soil, hurriedly fanning it.

Not understanding the woman's behaviour, Zhuangzi asked for her intention.

The woman replied, that her husband lied beneath the soil. Before he died, he had said she could only remarry, when the soil of his grave dried. It was the rainy season at that time, hence her fervent fanning, so that she could quickly seek a new man.

Zhuangzi shook his head, when he heard of her heartlessness.

Unknown to many, Zhuangzi was an accomplished Taoist practitioner. With his supernatural powers, he helped the woman to dry the soil almost immediately. Thrilled at the dried grave, the widow gave her fan to Zhuangzi and hurried down the mountain.

Zhuangzi returned home, singing and waving the fan. His wife, Tian, questioned where he got the fan from. When she heard of the widow, Tian was so angry that she tore the fan into pieces and called the widow shameless.

Zhuangzi pacified his wife and said he had faith in her chastity.

A few days later, he fell very sick and died. Tian was saddened at her husband's sudden death and wept in sorrow

At his funeral, a very handsome young man showed up with his old servant. He said he was Zhuangzi's student, and a son of an important government official.

He wanted to perform the rites of a dutiful student, and helped in his teacher's funeral, by watching vigil for three years.

His good looks caught the eye of the newly minted widow, Tian. She sought to know more his eligibility from the old servant.

Within 20 days, they got married.

On the night of their wedding, the young man was struck with an ear-shattering migraine. Tian anxiously asked the old servant for help. The old servant said his young master had this strange illness since birth. The only cure was to consume the brain of a human. Back in his hometown, the father would take the brain from the prisoners sentenced for death for his son.

But in this remote countryside, where could they find a human brain as medicine?

Tian thought of her dead husband. She promptly took an axe and hacked open his coffin.

Zhuangzi leapt out from the coffin and mused this now-famous Chinese verse, "青竹蛇兒口，黃蜂尾上針，兩者皆不毒，最毒婦人心。"

Tian proclaimed that she heard noises in her coffin and wanted to see if Zhuangzi was alive.

Zhuangzi questioned the red finery on her and the red decor in the house. Tian argued that she wanted to welcome him. So she donned on the wedding finery to get married with him again.

The young man and his servant walked in. They were actually manifestations of Zhuangzi's supernatural powers.

Tian was so ashamed of her heartless and deciteful act that she eventually hung herself.

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Every divination lot comes with a poem and a background story. This was the background story on my client's divination lot.

The poem states:

因名喪德如何事 卻恐吉中變化凶
酒醉不知何處去 青松影里夢朦朧

Virtues are destroyed in pursuit of self gain. Fear that the auspicious will morph into bad.

The drunkard knows nowhere to go. In the green forest a shadow lingers in a dreamy haze.

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It is common to encounter clients that lack faith in my recommendations.

Some will ask many questions after our session, wanting to know why my solutions will help them or how I derive my solutions. There are also emotional clients who would flare up and lose all their manners, when they can't get an answer that they like from me.

I don't ask my doctor what ingredient goes into the making of my cough syrup and how it works scientifically in my body.

I take action by drinking it as prescribed. Because based on past experience, I trust that his medicine will work to help my predicament. I don't drink, I continue to be sick, I don't see results.

My suggestions don't require my clients to consume unknown medical liquids into their bodies. Yet few clients take action, when it comes to their Destiny.

Despite me being recommended by their friend who experienced positive results with my help, and have genuine testimonials to justify my fees.

That divination lot was Bodhisattva telling me: My client will not write her story, for she does not sincerely regret her past acts.

It was also a grave reprimand to her to mend her ways before it was too late.

But she didn't see the divination lot in the same manner as I did.

Not only does she lack faith in my words, she distrusted the holy words of the Bodhisattva too.

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Give money, buy love, buy fame, buy business, buy wealth and buy that. No need hard work.

Such is the sexy appeal of many ghostly amulets. They appeal to people who want many things in life but refuse to follow the Law of Karma, to sow seeds the right way.

I see one client bidded for a Thai amulet from a Facebook Live. Another wanted to buy a multi-coloured bracelet, because "so pretty! Got power some more!" Luckily, his Wife who had learned some Buddhism from me stopped him.

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In March 2017, this client sent me a message:

"Hi Ji Qian, hope you are well. Good luck for your Home Fengshui For A Happy Marriage tomorrow.

I was looking thru our past convos where we first started speaking online. Yes, Im a spoilt brat and Im a yoyo porcupine. I look at a sentence that is poignant - "the day you stop relying on men is the day you become prosperous". I wonder if that day will ever come. I I finally understand that my Facebook Adverts getting disabled is due to my past karma. And I haven't finished writing the repentance story which u instructed me to write in August. I think I know that I'm half-hearted in repentance, that's why I can't bring myself to finish the story. I'm just wondering if I am supposed to survive on my savings till my Facebook Advert Account get reactivated.

I haven't been able to find any new product to sell since XXX (sales also failing miserably). I am weak-willed and too reliant on men. The only thing keeping me from committing suicide is my mum and because I'm reminded by Shifu's words that a suicide victim is doomed to repeat the same act."

菩薩英明。

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Last year, I had casually asked if I could share her story. She promptly gave me the permission.

Yesterday, one client called me unempathetic towards him. The way he wrote suddenly jolted my memory of this client. I had taken too long to write her story.

I told her to write in English and Chinese, and she did part of it.

The account you read of her past was adapted from her written work. Though there are many grammar and structural mistakes, she does write very well.

The poison in our hearts will eventually consume our souls if we do not purge it out. What joy is there when we resort to brutal force to keep a man by our side? Should he chooses to leave, that does not discount the value of our self worth. A man who isn't interested in you for the right reason isn't attractive.

The same goes for men who cheat or pay for sex. You are ruining another woman's life when you satisfy your lust.

When you inflict suffering on another being, in return, you get pain and suffering on yourself. So don't sow the seed in the first place. Repentance done right over a period of time can prevent your past bad seeds from germinating, and reduce your suffering.

If there is any merit in sharing her story here, I dedicate all of it to my client.

May she have the inner wisdom and stability to lead a virtuous life.

May she always be surrounded by good teachers to show her the way.

May her vile affinities be broken and replaced by good ones.

May her greed and hatred be subdued.

May she repent for her past transgressions in time.

No matter how long it may take, one step forward into the Light is one step away from Darkness.

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ཨོཾ་མ་ཎི་པདྨེ་ཧཱུྂ༔
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