When Layla first started solids, i was so fixated on babyled weaning. I wanted her to be able to feed herself, i wanted her to experience all those sensations from the food, i wanted her to develope her motor skills while feeding herself.
I must admit, it went well when it first started. But i was working and could not attend to her meals for 3 months. In that period, my helper and my mom was too afraid to let her feed herself, they just can't bear watching her gag. So they started feeding her.
When i took over after my production ended, she's learnt to open her mouth at the sight of spoon approaching her. For 2 weeks i tried to adjust her back to blw. She was so confused, and she also wasnt eating well with all my fussing. I was upset, she was upset. It took an entire hour just to feed her, a really unpleasant 1 hour too.
I struggled. I struggled with holding on to my ideals. I wanted the vision i played in my head to come true.
I almost sacrificed my daughter's happiness for my ego.
That's when i decided, it doesn't matter if its traditional weaning or babyled weaning. As long as she eats well, grows well, she enjoys her meal time and we enjoy our time together, how i feed her shouldn't matter. She will eventually learn to feed herself. It's fine and it's all good!
So much life lessons to learn in parenthood. It constantly challenges me to reflect on my thoughts and expectations. One thing i keep doing in this motherhood is to keep reminding myself to be mindful. And to stay happy!
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同時也有4部Youtube影片,追蹤數超過5萬的網紅Daphne Iking,也在其Youtube影片中提到,Today, I’m going to talk about my recent obsession! NORWEX CLOTHS! Is it legit? Does it really work? I discovered the effectiveness of Norwex during...
my happy helper 在 Facebook 的最讚貼文
I have a confession.
I can't put my baby down for naps. I nv could from the day she was born.
When Layla was just born, she had so much trouble napping. She'd only nap for 5mins a day, sometimes none at all. During my confinement period, it was my CN who'd put her down for nap. I took the time to rest while she napped. After she left, my helper took over. Over time, Layla got use to it and would only associate her to naps. My helper became her sleep prop. When she was younger, we would sometimes nap together with her latching on me. But now, she doesnt even want to do that anymore. She's ok with me at night, but nv in the day. When my helper goes on leave, She'd be sooo tired but refuse to sleep. The only way is to put her in a carrier and walk ard until she's asleep.
Frankly, im really bummed about it. My insecurities surfaced. I feel like I'm not good enough. I question my ability as a mother.
What mother can't put their baby to sleep?
I kept telling Deon that i wanna retrain her, so that she associates me to nap. But that also means i have to put her through distress when she's already found a sweet routine. He also said that eventually when she starts school, she will need to learn to sleep on her own. But, can i wait tt long when i feel so stressed wherever my helper goes on leave?
I question myself... do i want to retrain her for my ego or for real practical reason. I don't have the answer.
I know it's so silly to condemn myself for this one thing when i do so well in almost everything else.
Motherhood brings out underlying issues in a woman that you never knew existed.
Fellow moms, if u think ive got it altogether bcos i always look so happy and collected in my ig. Think again. I'm really just a regular mom with my regular insecurities.
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my happy helper 在 Facebook 的精選貼文
Blessed is watching my children grow up learning to be responsible for a comfortable home environment 👩👧👦
As a busy mom, I’m so happy I found my life saviour, the LG Global CordZeroTM A9 Kompressor which helps me to save time on housework!
After using it for a few weeks, @Elvischin_ and I came away with the distinct impression that this is easily one of our best home helper 🙌🏼🙌🏼
I am in awe with its technologies, like the Power Drive MopTM that really saves me a heap of time and energy by vacuuming and mopping, both at the same time And the new KompressorTM technology that increases bin capacity by compressing dust and dirt. This hugely reduces the number of times I have to empty the vacuum out 👍🏼
The A9 KompressorTM also comes with the 5 Step HEPA Filtration system which captures up to 99.97% of fine dust and prevents the dust from being re-circulated into your home!
I can’t say enough how useful it is for families like ours whose allergies can be triggered by fine dust.
Being lightweight with longer battery life, it is a breeze for me to bring out to @Merryhaus easily for cleaning (and not to mention it comes with an extra second battery.) It pivots around corners and under the furniture so effortlessly, even my little Maesa and Elma find it satisfying to help out and vacuum the house and enjoy how they can easily manoeuvre around the house.
Everyone in the family is loving this handy “helper” that makes household chores fun and easy 🙏🏻
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my happy helper 在 Daphne Iking Youtube 的最佳貼文
Today, I’m going to talk about my recent obsession! NORWEX CLOTHS!
Is it legit? Does it really work?
I discovered the effectiveness of Norwex during the MCO where I was heavily pregnant (and then delievered a newborn with 3 other younger kids still under lockdown).
I had no helper and I am someone who hates mess, oily floors and dusty surfaces. So I was getting really tired with housechores and it was affecting not just my health, but my relationship with my family members.
Someone told me about the brand - I tried it and my OCD streak was extremely happy with these "Little cloths with BIG cleaning Power".
The rest, as they say, is history!
When I signed up as a Consultant, my initial goal was to earn my “free mop”. But now, it goes beyond that and I just want to share how I’m not just getting cleaning done more efficiently, but the brand is eco -conscious too!
They have everything for everyone and for every situation. So now what most of you want to know is … WHAT’S THE HYPE BEHIND THESE CLOTHS … And does it really do what it claims to do?
Joining me in this session is my NORW3X family – David Enghuat and Carmen Tham, Senior Brand Advocates, Daphne Liang – Brand Advocate and Fellow Sabahan and also an independent Consultant with Norwex, Niney Chong!
Demo today:
1. 12:43 minutes : Ultra Absorbency Test by Daphne Iking
2. 15:43 minutes : Norwex Microfibre lifts and collects even the smallest particles of dirt, grease and moistureby Carmen Tham
3. 19:14 minutes : Saves Time & Money (remove makeup with just warm water and Face cloth/Mitt by Niney Chong
4. 29:56 minutes : NO Bucket. NO Mess. NO Stress. NO Kidding. Mop System with Daphne Liang
and finally
5. With da sifu at 38:18 minutes : Norwex Microfibre Removes up to 99% of Bacteria by David Eng Huat
Giveaway Contest!!!!
Question:
1. What is the Norwex BacLOCK technology and why is it good?
Complete this sentence: I need a NORWEX MICROFIBRE CLOTH because __________________________
Answer on my FACEBOOK Comment box.
You stand a chance to win a ENVIRO CLOTH. My Everything Cloth as well as a WINDOW CLOTH.
We will choose the winner and PM you! Goodluck! xoxo
my happy helper 在 Wui Kathy Youtube 的精選貼文
Recently we are having hot weather, MR and baby MH requested to have ice-blended drinks. In Malaysia’s intense tropical heat, cold drinks are always in demand. From a young age, our children have enjoyed the cool relief that an iced drink offers on the hottest days. While they typically consume chilled cordial drinks or mass-produced juices, there are concerns about the sugar content of these drinks, with nutritionists recommending that children reduce consumption of such sweetened drinks[1].
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Mouse mommy got a new blender helper - Philips Viva Collection Blender that comes with Duravita Tritan Jar that 20x stronger, not easily break off. Cool! That is my concern eventually whenever MR and baby MH eager to be my little kitchen helpers. My kids love to touch, explore, curious and experience together to see how the things works! Headache ya sometimes….
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my happy helper 在 Bubzvlogz Youtube 的最佳貼文
Hello Youtube Family,
Today’s Vlog:
I Would Never Forgive Myself,
What My Life Has Come To…
Happy Little Helper
Belly Button Gone
Emotional & Pregnant
Sorry vlogs have been a little slow. Tim only got back from Hong Kong today so I have spent the past 12 days being a little more occupied. I have really been trying to limit my driving since and now that Tim is back, I'm going to avoid it as much as possible. I thought I was lucky enough this pregnancy to not get leg cramps so much. From past experiences, I avoid them happening by not pointing my toes. However, I completely forgotten about this while driving. For the first time of my life, I lost control of my right leg while driving and it was so scary knowing I had little infants with me in the car. If anything happened, I would never forgive myself. I know I was probably just being dramatic (again) but it was a little wake up call for me to be safe than sorry. I am thankful because Isaac has been such a good little chap while daddy was away. We actually had such an awesome time these two weeks. I think the beautiful weather put us both in an extra happy mood.
Ps. Thank you Emily Norris for the Addis spray mop recommendation! I USE IT EVERYDAY and I LOVE IT!!!
Ps. Anyways, I'm craving fried chicken.
Have a wonderful week everyone!
Love, the Bubz family xo
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