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《天天父母親節》(English version below)
EVERYDAY IS FATHER'S AND MOTHER'S DAY
妳你知不知道,妳你是怎麼出現在這人間的?妳你知不知道,妳你的眼睛,是如何能見到光明,見到這世界的?妳你知不知道,妳你的耳朵,是如何能聽見聲音的?妳你知不知到,妳你的鼻子,是如何能夠呼吸的?妳你知不知道,妳你的舌頭,是如何能嚐到百味的?妳你知不知道,妳你的口,是如何能說話的?妳你知不知道,妳你的身體如何有的?這一切都是我們父母的精和卵結合的生命,還有十月懷胎、安胎、養胎,以及臨盆時的恐慌,與危險而所造就的。
佛、道、儒三教,皆大力倡導孝心、孝行。若妳你說妳你不必行孝,
原因一:妳你是西方信仰。
原因二:妳你無任何信仰。
原因三:妳你是孤兒。
原因四:妳你父母已不在人世。
原因五:妳你不是父母最寵的孩子。
告訴妳你,西方信仰的教義,其實就同中國的儒教,提倡己立而立人,己達而達人,也就是先把人的基礎,給打好。有人將儒教,歸類爲人乘,這段落的開頭吾已寫到,儒教也大力倡導孝心孝行,西方信仰既同於儒教人乘,都在講做人的基礎,哪有不必行孝這種邪說與歪理。除非這人不想做人,祇想做畜生。
行孝根本和信仰,毫無關係。行孝乃是做人的基本良知,倫理的道德。因此,祇要妳你是人的話,行孝是天經地義的。孤兒的由來,依然是爸媽的精卵,依然懷妳你,托著妳你,含著生命的危險,才把妳你給生出來。要不然,妳你連孤兒,這兩個字都沒有。生父生母妳妳或許,沒機會盡孝行孝,但妳你可以好好的孝敬孝敬養父養母呀!若父母已不在人世的妳你,可以天天唸佛修法,迴向她他們轉投更好的境界。要不妳你最起碼,也應奉公守法,不爲非作歹,行坐皆正啊!吾,玳瑚師父,實實在在,告訴妳你,吾並不是父母最寵的孩子,但吾自修自正,大力以佛法與玄學,廣利冥陽眾生,也常爲她他們法會報名與主祈,修法迴向之等等,以報父母難報之恩啊!
很多人總喜歡在所謂的父親節及母親節時,帶父母上餐館用餐,或包個利市給父母,或買個禮物送父母,或帶父母出國遊玩。這些是無可厚非的,也是人之常情。不過,這裡有幾點,大家必需得有所認知,才能真正的算得上,慶祝父母親節。
一、父母親節並不是,中華民族所定立。
二、帶父母親上餐館、出國遊玩、送禮物,是慶祝但更是享樂。
反一切的享與用,都是在消耗我們的福。而我們的福一旦被享完,災禍也就隨後跟著來。這些就是爲什麼,前幾天才慶祝父母親節,家裡其中一老就身體有恙,工作上、生意上皆不順逐等等。古德有言,聖哲有言、祖師有言,每天晨起向父母微笑請安、隨順父母,與父母一同昇華心靈,對父母關懷備至,遠比唯在父母親節,給於她他們的「享與用」,來得更實在更實惠。表示對父母的感恩,不是也不可在一年一度裡,而是將以上吾所寫的,實現在每一天裡,這就是天天父母親節。
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Do you know how did you appear in this human world? Have you got any idea how you get the ability of sight to see light, and this world? Do you know how your ears are able to hear sounds? How about your nose? Do you know how you can breath through it? Do you know how you can taste a hundred different flavors through your tongue? Not forgetting your mouth, do you know how you get the ability to speak? Lastly, do you know how your body is formed? All these are attributed to our parents' sperm and egg, the 10-month pregnancy, miscarriage prevention, fetal nourishment, not to mention the fear and danger when it is time to give birth to us.
The 3 schools of Buddhism, Taoism and Confucianism all strongly advocate the virtues of filial piety. If you say that there is no need to be filial, there must be a few reasons:
Reason No. 1: You are of a western faith and religion.
Reason No. 2: You have no faith or religion at all.
Reason No. 3: You are an orphan.
Reason No. 4: Your parents have already passed on.
Reason No. 5: You are not your parents' most doted child.
Let me tell you thus, the Western faith preaches similar dogma to that of the Chinese Confucian school of thought: Just as you would like to establish yourself in the world, so allow others to establish themselves. Just as you seek to understand things, so allow others the same opportunity. In other words, first lay a solid foundation as a human being. Some people classify Confucianism as The Way To Be A Human Being. As I wrote at the beginning of this paragraph, Confucianism also strongly espouses the virtues of filial piety, and the Western faith is similar to Confucianism in preaching the foundation qualities a human should have.
Therefore, it is nonsense and evil saying that one does not need to perform filial duties. Unless this person does not wish to be a human, but only an animal.
Being filial has absolutely nothing to do with faith and religion. It is the basic foundation of the human conscience and moral principles. Therefore, as long as you are a human, being filial piety is the unalterable principle of Heaven and Earth. Even an orphan is borne out of his or her parents' sperm and egg, and the exhaustion and risk of the pregnancy period and delivery. Without this, you won't even be able to be called an orphan. As an orphan, you may not have the opportunity to perform filial duties to your biological parents, but you can do it dutifully for your foster parents!
If your parents are no longer alive, you can recite the Buddha's name and perform spiritual cultivation everyday, and dedicate the merits to a better afterlife for them. Or at the very least, you can abide by the law, abstain from evil doings and be a righteous person in your daily living! I, Master Dai Hu, can honestly tell you that I am not my parent's favourite child. However, I self-studied and corrected myself. I put in great effort to benefit sentient beings, both in the worlds of the living and the dead, with Dharma and Chinese Metaphysics. In addition, I accumulate merits for them by regularly registering them as primary supplicants in numerous puja sessions, and through my daily Buddhist practices, etc. All these to repay the huge and impossible-to-repay debt of gratitude to my parents!
On the other hand, all forms of enjoyment and usage exhaust our store of good fortune. When our good fortune are fully depleted, misfortune will strike. This is why a few days after a Father's or Mother's Day celebration, you encounter situations like sickness in one of the old folks at home, obstacles in your career or business, etc. The ancient virtuous teachers, sages and masters have these sayings, that we should greet our parents with a smile every morning, follow their wishes, and progress spiritually together with them. We must also show meticulous care and concern towards them.
These practical actions speak volumes, and dwarf the once-a-year showering of dinner and gifts on Father's or Mother's Day, for their indulgence and usage.
Expressing our gratitude to our parents cannot be performed only on a single day each year. Follow what I wrote above, and actualize your filial piety every day. And we will have Father's and Mother's Day every day.
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《向善向上 2》Towards Kindness, Towards Betterment 2
心可造天堂,心可造地獄。
改命必從心起,改運必先行動。
30則真人真事的度眾故事 30 real-life deliverance stories of Master Dai Hu
全彩色的漫畫 Comics in full colour illustration
中英文翻譯 In both English & Mandarin
192頁 192 pages
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Transformation of your destiny begins from your mind.
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Looking forward to your enthusiastic support! May everybody has a copy and gift copies of this virtuous book to your family and friends and together, embrace a beautiful future!
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【愚人算命,智人改命】
"Does your child have an irregular heartbeat or a hole in his heart?"
I asked my client, after glancing at her son's Bazi.
Back in July, I wrote a post on the terrifying Kawasaki disease among young children. It got 75 shares.
That post attracted more parents with children of various health issues, to contact me in the past months.
My client replied, no abnormality was detected at birth.
3 weeks later, when I was analysing her Bazi, she told me her son's recent echocardiogram revealed a hole in his heart.
The doctor said it was very likely due to a birth defect, and not the Kawasaki disease that the son was recovering from.
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When I heard it, gratitude and admiration for my Shifu rose in my heart.
He was the teacher, who showed me how to identify if a Bazi had heart issues.
Shifu often chided me for having it too easy when it comes to learning Chinese Metaphysics. #Shifusostrict #wheregoteasy
After Shifu's father, a well-respected geomancer & TCM practitioner, passed away, Shifu had to go the rocky route of verifying everything he learnt and discovered on his own.
In his late 20s, he spent a good 2 years knocking on doors of HDB flats, to read people's Bazi and audit home Feng Shui for free, in Yishun, Chong Pang, Woodlands, Khatib, Admiralty, Tanjong Pagar and Ang Mo Kio estates.
Cladded in jeans and a T-shirt, with a backpack and a box file, Shifu would painstakingly analyse any Bazi and Chinese name given to him.
#whyhenocomeBukitHoSwee
Doors slammed on his face, dogs barked at him, old people shunned him, threats of calling the police were hurled at him.
There were also kind-hearted souls who gave Shifu an angpow as a token of their appreciation, or offered him dinner.
Every time Shifu reached home, he would be starving and perspiring like a polar bear.
One guy student (my senior) went door knocking with Shifu once, and was scared to go again the next day.
Shifu sometimes misses those days, and thinks none of us would do it with him. He said it was excellent on-the-ground training for you never know what you are going to get.
I volunteered myself.
I used to do door-to-door surveys for a market research company in my undergrad days.
But Shifu said I'm cotton candy soft and would run away the next day like his student. 😟
Till this day, Shifu still has clients from his HDB knocking days.
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Behind every good Feng Shui master, there are many untold stories of pain and sacrifice for him to achieve that level of mastery.
Few people cared about that.
Too many people waste too much time looking at us up and down suspiciously, and disregarding Chinese Metaphysics as old wives' tale.
They do not have the patience and scientific intelligence to suss out the real from the fakes. So they take one bamboo pole and whack the whole boat upside down.
The opportunity cost for them, however, is the chance to turn around their children's lives.
Many parents tell me: As a parent, I naturally want the best for my child.
True for some of them. Lying through the teeth for others. #連自己都騙
Not all parents love their children. Not all parents make sensible decisions.
Sometimes, wanting the best and doing their best mean two different universes.
There are clients who wanted me to read their children's Bazi, but their spouse object. Despite the clients having positive results.
A workshop participant was experiencing a problem during her pregnancy. I peeked into her family future, and I realise the problem at hand is just the tip of the iceberg.
I told her to look for my Shifu. He would have the merits to bail her family out from their difficult future, before it is too late.
She didn't.
She was confident about Shifu's skills in Wealth Feng Shui, read that he had helped a client's father recover from cancer but she had never read anything of his abilities in helping an unborn child from his testimonials.
#facepalm #whydidntsheask
Another lady didn't want to implement my Feng Shui recommendations for her child. She told it would be difficult.
I looked into her eyes as she spoke. Liar. She didn't want to spend money on the mini renovation for her least favourite child.
(By looking at the parent's and child's Bazi, it is easy to tell which child the parent favours.)
I spent a good 20 minutes, explaining again the adverse effects the room Feng Shui had on her child's future. It was already rearing its ugly head. Her disciplinary action had never worked and will never work, given such Feng Shui.
I reminded her the duty of a responsible parent. I didn't mince my words. You know me.
I could have just taken my fees and go. Who care what you want to do with your child's future? It's your child, your problem, not mine.
But coming from a single-parent family, not only do I care about children development, I am deeply concerned about what my motherland will become when these children grow up.
We already have a plummeting birth rate.
Every child's future saved, is one less problem for our society, and one more superhero for Singapore.
Let's not have too many broken adults, when we can build strong and compassionate children.
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The moment the child is conceived, with both parents' Bazi on hand, a competent Chinese Metaphysics practitioner can foretell the development of the foetus.
E.g. will the foetus have Down syndrome or other medical condition?
Will the mother experience miscarriage?
Will the foetus grow healthily?
How difficult will the pregnancy be for the mother?
How will the family fortune change?
What can the parents do?
If the practitioner had audited the home Feng Shui, more potential problems will be identified early in time, and resolved before it manifest in the pregnancy.
We are what we live in.
Some home Feng Shui problems handicap the couple from having a faithful and fulfilling marriage, including the lack of children.
Some Bazi, on the other hand, experience a downturn in their fates, after having children.
In cases I have seen where parents have sickly children, some causes are parents who committed much killing.
E.g. running a puppy mill, a fishing farm, a prawning facility.
The other day, I had a client who had a Down syndrome child. I applauded her determination in giving birth to the child. Her husband, however, wanted to abort.
My advice to any parent who want to kill their flesh and blood, because it's not up to their standard:
Don't even think about it.
Some children are our karmic debtors. When they come as sickly offspring, it means the debt you owe them require a long and intensive effort to repay.
If you kill your child, the karmic debt you owe your child will escalate. It will NOT disappear.
An aborted baby stays around to haunt his parents. For as long as the parents live. Or until the baby had taken vengeance.
No such thing as the killed baby vanishing into thin air after some time.
Violence never bring permanent peace.
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"When should we do a Bazi reading for our child?"
As soon as possible.
It is already difficult enough to raise a child, with both parents working.
Money is never enough. Time is never sufficient. Sleep is always lacking.
When we know how to help our children with their Bazi needs, the mutual understanding strengthens. We solve the problem right at the root, in the quickest time possible.
No more second guessing. No more quarrels.
Better performing children, happier parents.
As a mother, if I wish to get our child's Bazi read, my husband would have no chance to obstruct me from planning our child's future. (Not that my darling would.)
Because I'm also a 50% stakeholder, and I sacrifice my figure to carry our child in my uterus for freaking 9 months, shouldn't I have some say too? Not like I would blindly choose any Tom, Dick or Harry to read our child's Bazi. At most, I use my own money. 😄
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Any loving parent would wish to live to a ripe old age, to take care of the Down syndrome child.
From a Chinese Metaphysics point of view, if the child is at a very tender age, it is easier to minimise the impact of the extra chromosome, through Bazi analysis and Feng Shui.
What do we hope to achieve?
Better temperament. Better health. Improved social skills. Able to articulate better. Able to function as independently as possible. Attract more benefactors. Etc.
Aiming to live to 100 years old to take care of the child may be noble.
If you ask me, giving the child a positive environment to change his destiny is a wiser and more practical move.
But first, let's start with educating the parents on the wisdom behind Chinese Metaphysics.
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