#spiritofaloha #阿羅哈之精神 #別愛錯人 #中文如下 🌬⠀
I can’t believe it - this is it - the photo that represents my 2019🌓✨ So much DARKNESS, hesitation and anxiety, but blessed with sparks of light, HOPE and even more BEAUTY after all. ✨⠀
I can’t even wrap up what emotions I’ve been thru, how many times I just wanted to drop it all and escape, turning my back and say “fxck it all, I give up”🖕🏽⠀
But eventually I am learning to say “fxck you” to the UNIMPORTANT things, and... “I love you” ...to myself... the vulnerable, insecure and flawed self, that is trying so hard to do good without getting fxxxing hurt 💔⠀
Truth is, there is nothing to be scared of - but WASTING your passion and talent by trying to live a life for OTHERS - ...especially for those who are busy TAKING without PASSING on. 🙌🏽 Energy flows where focus goes. Focus on the LIGHT now 💛⠀
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“Aloha” ~ {love, compassion, mercy and peace} ✌🏽🌧♥️ ⠀
Thank you Hawaii, and thank you @designmesomethingkevn for capturing this gift 📸 ⠀
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我看到嚇到,因為這張照片表達了我2019年經歷過的一切🌓✨ 心靈中存在一個外層看不到的環境~ 如此地黑暗,滿滿地猶豫和焦慮,但壓力中又能感受一個充滿光明,希望和美麗的火花 ✨⠀
我的情緒,我無法整理。今年有多少次我真的想丟掉並跳脫一切,回頭說「他媽的 我放棄了!」🖕🏽(不好意思)⠀
但是最終,我學到做分別。 的確要對某些不重要的事說「fxxx 我不管你了」,但同時也要跟自己說「我愛妳」⋯ 我愛脆弱的妳,沒有安全感和滿滿缺陷的妳,因為妳是有一顆很努力想做好人,但害怕被批判與受傷的心💔⠀
事實是,人生沒有什麼好害怕的~ 唯一該怕得要命是:為他人過生活並浪費你原有的激情、善良與才華。有捨才有得,別愛錯人,最重要的人還是你自己。🌬 懂得人會懂你,其他人 你能懂。每一位、每一天、人人都在盡力🙌🏽 💛⠀
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“ Aloha”〜{愛、同情、慈善與和平}✌🏽🌧♥️⠀
謝謝夏威夷 謝謝 @designmesomethingkevn 讓我留下這個回憶 📸🌧🌈
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【業力的黑洞】THE BLACK HOLE OF KARMA
(一)
「我不是叫你帶筆記本嗎?」
我看著男客人擺在桌上的那僅僅一張A4紙。
男客人不好意思地說:「我忘了。這是跟櫃台取的。」
「我千里迢迢來到這裡,因為你說你要改命。你就拿這樣一張借來的紙,來改命?一個半小時的看八字,夠你寫嗎?還是你不夠寫時,又要浪費我的時間去借紙?你的認真在哪裡?」
我雙眼直視著男客人的眼睛。
他連忙站起來,去借了多幾張A4紙。
•
(二)
「你怎麼帶那麼小的本子?夠寫嗎?」
我不可思議的看著,那如信用卡一般大的記事本。
男客人答:「可以啦!我只寫重點!」
「你這個是懶。我的每一句話都是重點。你的八字在我手上,你是怎樣的人,你不要以為我不知道。你不要跟我瞎掰,更不要有寫沒寫的,然後事後又發私訊重覆性的問回我一樣的問題,因為你沒有用心思寫下來。樓上有書店,要嘛你現在去買,我給你十五分鐘,要嘛我們今天就不看你的八字。你自己選。」
男客人十分鐘內,買了A4本子。
•
(三)
我為即將結婚的男客人看新家風水。
他來過我的風水講座數次,閱讀我臉書也有兩年多時間,應該很熟悉我的性格。事前,我提醒過他兩次要帶筆記本,兩次兩次他都跟我說謝謝提醒。
站在客廳看風水時,他抽出那張A4的屋子平面圖,壓在手掌心寫。
「我不是已經叫你帶筆記本嗎?」
他笑笑不語,沒有解釋,沒有道歉。
新家風水那麼重要,關係到你和你家人未來至少五年的興旺,你就在這一張軟綿綿的紙上寫兩個小時的筆記嗎?
以我對客人的要求,我本會叫他到外頭買筆記本,我們才繼續看風水。
但那天,現任屋主還住在那個單位,是特別約好時間讓我們進去看風水,對方也在等著我們完事後就要出門。
想想他過去兩年來常在我臉書貼文按讚,就給他一點面子,讓他在女朋友面前好下台,也算是報答他的支持。
於是,我看在眼裡,記在心裡。依我的經驗,沒把筆記寫好的,必會再來問我。
幾天後,他來訊詢問。當中有幾個問題,我當天已解說過。
我回他:「我雖不介意回答已經回答過的問題,但如果你那一天有帶筆記本,你必會抄下來。」
也就不用再問。
我也寫道:「我對你有點失望。」
他回我:「我明白也注意到你的失望。以後會更留意自己的念頭和舉止。」
「你應該跟我道歉。你忽視我的善意提醒本就不對。」
也猶如騙了我。如果你當初不想帶,直說,不要以假謝謝敷衍。
男客人過後道歉,也大方的同意我把這件事情寫出來,警惕大家。
如果你的未來註定會坎坷,無論是婚姻、事業、家庭或財富,你要比任何人都更注意你的一舉一動。
因為你細小的念頭,細微的決定,會一步一步引你掉入你命中註定的歹運。
你會漏掉寫下我千交代萬交代的事情。
你會寫錯、聽錯、記錯、做錯。
你身邊的人會影響你,告訴你不要聽我或任何能幫你改命的話,你如何如何讓她他不開心不舒服。
你會有錢也不要出錢,只是一直想博取我的同情,得到免費的幫助,然後稱說自己沒有錢。
你會任性,你會執著,你會覺得風水命理沒那麼厲害,你自己說了算,雖然你根本不怎麼樣。
因為你已變成一個弦线上的小木偶,被你那無情的業力操控著。
我的嚴厲,是要及時拉你一把,不要「青青菜菜」的過活,不要拖累你的家人和你一起遭業報。
不是每個人跌倒後,都能夠爬得起來。
誰不想做好人,讓每個人都喜歡自己?但自古,慈母多敗兒。
在現今社會裡,男人女人的自信,都是來自於事業,但每個人的幸福,都是源自於家庭。
所以千萬千萬不要自私。
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(1)
“Didn't I tell you to bring a notebook?"
I looked at the lonely piece of A4 paper the male client placed on the table.
Slightly embarrassed, the male client said, "I forgot. This was obtained from the counter."
"I come all the way here because you tell me you want to change your destiny. You bring this kind of paper to change your life? My consultation is 1.5 hour and you think it's enough for you to write? Or when you run out of space, are you going to waste my time to go and borrow paper? Where is your seriousness?"
I looked at the male client straight in the eyes.
He hurriedly stood up and borrowed a few more pieces of A4 paper.
•
(2)
"Why did you bring such a small notebook? How is it enough for you to write?"
I looked at the credit-card-sized notebook incredulously.
The male client replied, "Can! I only write the important points!"
"This is your sloth. Everything I said is important. Your Bazi is in my hands. Don't think that I do not know what kind of person you are. Don't talk nonsense to me. Don't write selectively and then later send me PMs asking me the same questions that I have answered in this consultation, just because you didn't put in effort to jot it down. There is a bookshop upstairs. Either you go and buy now. I will give you 15 minutes. Or we will cancel today's consultation. You decide."
The male client returned with a brand new A4 notebook in ten minutes.
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(3)
I was doing a Feng Shui audit for a male client who was getting married.
He came to my Feng Shui workshops a few times and have read my Facebook for over 2 years. Prior to the audit, I reminded him twice to bring a notebook and twice, he thanked me for my reminders.
While standing in the living room doing the Feng Shui audit, he drew out a A4-sized floorplan and wrote on it, with his palm as the backing.
"Didn't I already tell you to bring a notebook?"
He smiled back at me. No explanation. No apology.
The Feng Shui of a new home is so important because it determines the future of your family luck for at least the next 5 years. And you are going to write on this floppy piece of paper for the next 2 hours?
Given my expectations of clients, I would have told him to go and buy a notebook before I continued my audit.
But that day, the current owner was still living in the unit. It was by appointment that we were let in to get the Feng Shui audit done. The family was also waiting for us to finish things up, as they were going out.
I thought of the many times that he had Liked my FB posts these two years. So I decided to give him some face, and not make things difficult for him in front of his girlfriend. Also a very tiny way of me thanking him for his support all these while.
Hence, I put this incident in my heart. From my experience, I know that anyone who did not write the notes well will definitely come back to ask me again.
A few days later, he sent me messages, some of which were raising the same questions that I had explained on the day of the audit.
I told him, "While I do not mind answering the same questions again, if you had brought a notebook that day, you would have written it down."
You and I would not need to repeat ourselves again.
I also wrote, "I am slightly disappointed in you."
His reply, "Well noted on your disappointment. Will pay attention to own thoughts/actions for better changes."
"You should apologise to me. It is wrong of you to ignore my reminders to bring a notebook."
This is akin to lying to me. If you do not wish to bring, say it outright. Don't brush me off with perfunctory thanks.
He did apologised later and graciously gave me the permission to write about this, to remind my readers.
If your future is destined to be difficult, be it in your marriage, career, family or wealth, you must be extra observant of your every action and deed.
Because every little thought of yours, every seemingly minor decision you made, will lead you step-by-step to fall into the manhole of your pre-destined bad fortune.
You will miss out on what I repeatedly tell you to do.
You will write wrongly, hear wrongly, remember wrongly and do wrongly.
The people around you will influence you. They will tell you not to listen to me, or any well-meaning advice to transform your destiny. They will say that you doing so is making them unhappy and uncomfortable.
You will be unwillingly to fork out money even when you can afford it. You want to live off the compassion of mine and get free help, on the empty claim that you have no money.
You will be wilful. You will be stubborn. You will think that there is no big deal about Chinese Metaphysics and that what you say matters the most in your life. Despite not having any ability or past achievement to support that fat bold claim.
Because you have already become that little string puppet, being dangled around mercilessly by your negative karma.
My sternness is to pull you away from that manhole of mishaps. Do not live your life in a blur. Do not drag your family down with you to suffer at the hands of karma.
Not everyone can stand up right again, after a really bad fall.
Who doesn't wish to be that well-liked person? But since ancient times, an overly loving mother often leads to a useless son.
In modern society, the self confidence of every man and woman tend to come from his/her career. But happiness and bliss will always come from your family.
So never ever choose to be selfish.
self compassion意思 在 玳瑚師父 Master Dai Hu Facebook 的最讚貼文
《米桶發財法》(English version below)
STRIKING RICH WITH THE RICE BIN
年少時,吾突然意思到,吾的身段似乎「過於苗條」了,是時候讓它「蓬勃發展」。一來,能保護身邊的人,二來,在整體上,較爲健康,較爲好看些。於是,吾在食量上加倍,向同班同學借來一對九公斤重的啞鈴,勤做仰臥起坐、伏地挺身,以及使用其他運動器材。這些是吾室內強身健體的部份。至於室外的部份,較常較多的當屬游泳了。當年吾最喜用蛙式與蝶式,且每一次來回,喜「上岸」做仰臥起坐,及伏地挺身。吾不敢說吾的身材有多好多好,可確實有男女稱讚過,也起碼沒有多餘的贅肉。
除了室內室外的強身健體以外,吾還有一種獨特增強體魄的方法,那就是扛米。是的,妳你們沒聽錯,吾也沒搞錯。家父是位智慧型的嚴父,對他真的是又敬又怕。有一天吾鼓起勇氣,向他說吾想去幫家裡買米,他卻微笑的應允。這也是吾降生娑婆世間,首次體驗十公斤重,左右手各扛五公斤米的滋味。再加上那段路段來回,彷彿心中有首非常著名的詩在吟著,那即是:
鋤禾日當午,
汗滴禾下土。
誰知盤中餐,
粒粒皆辛苦。(一笑)
這種滋味實在是有夠勁!回到家時,家父依然微笑以對。雖然這初次買米的覺受,既新鮮又「夠勁」,吾並沒有退縮的心念,吾認爲這是很好的回報機會,也確實達於強健體魄。
吾,玳瑚師父,忠心祝願大家智慧增長,能辨別真偽,破除邪說歪道,無有恐怖,無顛倒妄想,快樂自在,究竟離苦。好些著重於外表的人,爲了擁有曼妙的身段,得以達於人衣合一的境界,(一笑)破釜沉舟式「棄米投美」,尤其是女有情眾。事實是她們不懂米,對於人體的益處。米是含著天上的甘露,地中的靈氣而生,是人類生存能量重要的來源。它可用來解毒、除煞、化煞、開光、治病、美容、護膚等等。很多女性瘦身減肥後,成功後身體卻有恙,原因雖有幾個,但不離因沒食米飯。潮州多出美女是事實,潮州美女的特徵在鳳眼膚白。爲什麼?因爲潮州人多以粥,及清蒸食物爲飲食習慣。米所含之豐富礦物質,乃人體所需重要礦物質。
米的種類有多種,一般我們較常看見的有,珍珠米、印度米、泰國香米、糙米、糯米,等等。這些米種皆有它們各自所屬之五行。若妳你確實清楚,妳你本身所需之喜用神,妳你可以選購旺妳你的米種,天天食之天天旺。這招本是發財的第一步,如此簡單如此實惠,可憐愚夫愚婦迷信不通,花巨額亂搞瞎搞的,搞了精疲力盡,始終搞慘自己及家人。如今吾,玳瑚師父,憐憫眾生而傳授此法,願得者利己亦利她他,多積陰德才好。買對了米,就將米用木質米桶裝起,再貼上一個滿字於米桶外。這是發財第二招。若妳你想將米桶置於櫥櫃的外上方,就請妳你將米桶隔離窗口,較聚氣處爲好。這是發財第三招。米桶發財法,人人能做,家家戶戶能做。豐衣足食的日子,已不遠啦!
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When I was still a youth, one day, I suddenly realized that I was perhaps too thin and it was time to beef up my physique. Firstly, I would be able to protect the people around me, and also look better and healthier on the whole. Thus, I increased my food intake, borrowed a pair of 9kg dumbbells from my classmate, diligently did push-ups and sit-ups, as well as used other exercising equipment. These were my indoor exercises. As for my outdoor activities, I mostly and frequently did swimming. My favorite strokes in the pool then were breast-stroke and the butterfly stroke. After every lap, I liked to get onto dry land and do sit-ups and push-ups. I dare not say how great my body was, however I did received praises from other men and women. At the very least, I did not have excess fat hanging off me.
Besides those indoor and outdoor body-building activities, I also had a special training method: carry rice sacks. Yes, you heard it correct. My father was an intelligent but strict disciplinarian, and I was often afraid yet in awe of him. One day, I summoned my courage and told him that I would like to help buy rice for the household. He agreed with a slight smile. Ever since my birth into this Samsara world, this was my first time experiencing the weight of lifting 10kg rice, with my left and right hands carrying 5kg respectively. Coupled with the journey to and fro, a famous Chinese poem seemed to sing from my heart:
Neath the midday sun he hoes his crops
His sweat moistens the soil between the stalks
Of food on the table who recalls
Each grain is produced through bitter toil
This experience was indeed something! As I got home, my dad still greeted me with a slight smile. Although my first experience of buying rice was refreshing and tough, I did not have any thought of backing off. I considered it as a good opportunity to repay my parents, and to strengthen my physique at the same time.
Master Dai Hu sincerely wish that everyone would gain wisdom and discern the true from the false, destroy evil speech and dishonest practices, not have fear and deranged delusions, have bliss and freedom and finally leave the realm of sufferings. There are many people who place a huge self-importance on their physical appearance. To have a graceful figure so as to reach the level of being one with their clothing, (laughs), they would burn their boats and forsake eating rice, all in the name of beauty. This is especially common among the ladies. The fact is that these ladies do not understand the benefits of eating rice for the human body.
The rice grain is birthed from the dew of Heaven and the spiritual qi of earth. It is an important source of survival energy for humans. It can serve as an antidote to poison, for removal and transformation of vile energies, consecration, curing of illnesses, beauty care, skincare, etc. After losing weight successfully, many ladies get stricken with ailments. Although there are several reasons to this, it is not far from not consuming rice. The city of Chao Zhou is famed for producing beauties, renowned for their distinctive elegant and almond-shaped eyes and porcelain skins. Why is that so? Because rice porridge and steamed food are staple foods of the people in Chao Zhou. The rice minerals prevalent in rice are vital minerals that the human body needs.
There are numerous types of rice, with the commonly seen grains like the pearl rice, Indian basmati rice, the Thai jasmine rice, brown rice, glutinous rice, etc. These various grains each have their own elemental types. If you are very clear about your favourable elements in your Bazi, you can purchase the suitable grain type, to gain prosperity everyday through your daily consumption. This is the first technique to striking great wealth. It is simple yet brings practical benefits. I pity the misbelieving men and women, who spent huge money only to act ignorantly, get drained of energy, and at the end, brought nothing but trouble to themselves and their families.
Today, I, Master Dai Hu, impart this method out of compassion for the sentient beings, and hope that those who benefits pay it forward to accumulate more hidden merits. After purchasing the right type of grains, store it in a wooden rice bin, and paste a paper, with the Chinese character "滿" written on it, onto the bin exterior. This is the second technique to more riches.
If you wish to place the rice bin on top of a cabinet, please place it away from the window, even better if it is at a spot that can accumulate Qi. This is the third step to greater wealth. This method of striking riches with your rice bin is applicable for everyone and every household. Get ready to welcome the days of great harvest and rice clothing!
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30則真人真事的度眾故事 30 real-life deliverance stories of Master Dai Hu
全彩色的漫畫 Comics in full colour illustration
中英文翻譯 In both English & Mandarin
約200頁 About 200 pages
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