在診所候診區常常會看到形形色色的親子互動,有的爸媽雙眼沒有離開過小孩,陪好奇的孩子探索討論診所各式各樣的恐龍,念繪本給小孩聽。 也有些爸媽,眼睛沒有離開過手機,對於小孩的問題只有哼哼哈哈的帶過,只要不跌倒不出事就好。 今天跟大家分享一些觀念及一段影片,希望每個家長都能在孩子需要你的黃金年紀,放下你的手機,停下眼前追的劇,離開聲光效果迷人的遊戲,陪孩子玩,互動跟探索。
孩子剛出生時,大腦裡約有兩千億個腦神經元,但神經元之間的連結尚未建立。 神經元連結的豐富程度,是由大人們給孩子的刺激而異,好的刺激越多,孩子的大腦發展得越好。 六歲左右,孩子的大腦建構與發展大致完成,所以孩子的幼兒時期是大腦發育的黃金期。
也因為孩子在 6 歲左右大腦發展就已經底定了大約八成,若是孩子在幼兒時期未能把握大腦發育的黃金時期與他互動,在進入學齡後,開始就會有專注度、學習能力、人際關係等種種問題,這時才來關心孩子,就只能收拾後果了。
越來越多的家長知道,陪伴孩子閱讀跟玩耍,可以提供孩子成長所需的刺激。但要做親子共讀並不容易,不是每個家長都有時間、有能力能夠陪伴孩子共讀。 陪孩子一起玩遊戲,比起親子共讀容易得多了,每個家長都應該掌握各種遊戲的大方向,利用生活周遭的物件來陪孩子玩耍。
遊戲方式約略分成幾個類型: 依據孩子年紀大小不同,可以做不同的選擇
1. 身體動作遊戲:例如到公園或遊戲區玩耍
2. 感官功能遊戲:例如玩沙,泡浴缸時玩水
3. 建構遊戲:例如拼圖,堆積木
4. 社會戲劇遊戲:例如扮家家酒
5. 規則遊戲:例如撲克牌、大富翁
每一種類的遊戲都有它對孩子的幫助,有興趣的家長可以上網搜尋親子天下網站閱讀周育如老師的文章 :
" 幼兒大腦發展:如何掌握學習關鍵期 "
另外附上一段可愛的小女生在 TED 演講有關她觀察到小寶寶跟爸爸玩遊戲互動的過程,對於家裡還有0-6歲孩子的家長,真的可以有點省思,千萬不要錯過這段大腦發展的黃金時期。
PS. 記得可以開啟中文字幕喔 !
https://www.ted.com/talks/molly_wright_how_every_child_can_thrive_by_five/transcript#t-37375
youngest中文 在 繪出英文力 Facebook 的最佳貼文
這個TED的演說需要被更多人分享出去,因為這7歲的小女孩想告訴全世界的大人們,"陪伴"對孩子來說有多~~~~~~麽重要,尤其是他們的前面那5年. 這是TED截取的其中一段演講:
https://fb.watch/v/1P5ISR1rN/
想聽完整版的朋友們可以直接點選這連結:
https://www.ted.com/talks/molly_wright_how_every_child_can_thrive_by_five?utm_campaign=tedspread&utm_medium=referral&utm_source=tedcomshare
PS. 這個影音檔才上線不久,應該再過一陣子就會有中文字幕的選項,到時會聽得更明白. 可以把連結先存好,想到就找出來聽聽,提醒我們自己 "陪伴帶給孩子的那些正能量".
youngest中文 在 黃之鋒 Joshua Wong Facebook 的最佳解答
【Joshua Wong speaking to the Italian Senate】#意大利國會研討會演說 —— 呼籲世界在大學保衛戰一週年後與香港人站在同一陣線
中文、意大利文演說全文:https://www.patreon.com/posts/44167118
感謝開創未來基金會(Fondazione Farefuturo)邀請,讓我透過視像方式在意大利國會裡舉辦的研討會發言,呼籲世界繼續關注香港,與香港人站在同一陣線。
意大利作為絕無僅有參與一帶一路發展的國家,理應對中共打壓有更全面的理解,如今正值大學保衛戰一週年,以致大搜捕的時刻,當打壓更為嚴峻,香港更需要世界與我們同行。
為了讓各地朋友也能更了解香港狀況,我已在Patreon發佈當天演說的中文、英文和意大利文發言稿,盼望在如此困難的時勢裡,繼續讓世界知道我們未曾心息的反抗意志。
【The Value of Freedom: Burning Questions for Hong Kongers】
Good morning. I have the privilege today to share some of my thoughts and reflections about freedom, after taking part in social activism for eight years in Hong Kong. A movement calling for the withdrawal of the extradition law starting from last year had escalated into a demand for democracy and freedom. This city used to be prestigious for being the world’s most liberal economy, but now the infamous authoritarian government took away our freedom to election, freedom of assembly, freedom of expression and ideas.
Sometimes, we cannot avoid questioning the cause we are fighting for, the value of freedom. Despite a rather bleak prospect, why do we have to continue in this struggle? Why do we have to cherish freedom? What can we do to safeguard freedom at home and stay alert to attacks on freedom? In answering these questions, I hope to walk through three episodes in the previous year.
Turning to 2020, protests are not seen as frequently as they used to be on the media lens, partly because of the pandemic, but more importantly for the authoritarian rule. While the world is busy fighting the pandemic, our government took advantage of the virus to exert a tighter grip over our freedom. Putting the emergency laws in place, public assemblies in Hong Kong were banned. Most recently, a rally to support press freedom organized by journalists was also forbidden. While many people may ask if it is the end of street activism, ahead of us in the fight for freedom is another battleground: the court and the prison.
Freedom Fighters in Courtrooms and in Jail
Part of the huge cost incurred in the fight for freedom and democracy in Hong Kong is the increasing judicial casualties. As of today, more than 10 thousand people have been arrested since the movement broke out, more than a hundred of them are already locked up in prison. Among the 2,300 protestors who are prosecuted, 700 of them may be sentenced up to ten years for rioting charges.
Putting these figures into context, I wish to tell you what life is like, as a youngster in today’s Hong Kong. I was humbled by a lot of younger protestors and students whose exceptional maturity are demonstrated in courtrooms and in prison. What is thought to be normal university life is completely out of the question because very likely the neighbour next door or the roommate who cooked you lunch today will be thrown to jail on the next.
I do prison visits a few times a month to talk to activists who are facing criminal charges or serving sentences for their involvement in the movement. It is not just a routine of my political work, but it becomes my life as an activist. Since the movement, prison visits has also become the daily lives of many families.
But it is always an unpleasant experience passing through the iron gates one after one to enter the visitors’ room, speaking to someone who is deprived of liberty, for a selflessly noble cause. As an activist serving three brief jail terms, I understand that the banality of the four walls is not the most difficult to endure in jail. What is more unbearable is the control of thought and ideas in every single part of our daily routine enforced by the prison system. It will diminish your ability to think critically and the worst of it will persuade you to give up on what you are fighting for, if you have not prepared it well. Three years ago when I wrote on the first page of prison letters, which later turned into a publication called the ‘Unfree Speech’, I was alarmed at the environment of the prison cell. Those letters were written in a state in which freedom was deprived of and in which censorship was obvious. It brings us to question ourselves: other than physical constraints like prison bars, what makes us continue in the fight for freedom and democracy?
Mutual Support to activists behind-the-scene
The support for this movement is undiminished over these 17 months. There are many beautiful parts in the movement that continue to revitalise the ways we contribute to this city, instead of making money on our own in the so-called global financial centre. In particular, it is the fraternity, the mutual assistance among protestors that I cherished the most.
As more protestors are arrested, people offer help and assistance wholeheartedly -- we sit in court hearings even if we don’t know each other, and do frequent prison visits and write letters to protesters in detention. In major festivals and holidays, people gathered outside the prison to chant slogans so that they won’t feel alone and disconnected. This is the most touching part to me for I also experienced life in jail.
The cohesion, the connection and bonding among protestors are the cornerstone to the movement. At the same time, these virtues gave so much empowerment to the mass public who might not be able to fight bravely in the escalating protests. These scenes are not able to be captured by cameras, but I’m sure it is some of the most important parts of Hong Kong’s movement that I hope the world will remember.
I believe this mutual support transcends nationality or territory because the value of freedom does not alter in different places. More recently, Twelve Hongkong activists, all involved in the movement last year, were kidnapped by China’s coastal guard when fleeing to Taiwan for political refugee in late-August. All of them are now detained secretly in China, with the youngest aged only 16. We suspect they are under torture during detention and we call for help on the international level, putting up #SAVE12 campaign on twitter. In fact, how surprising it is to see people all over the world standing with the dozen detained protestors for the same cause. I’m moved by activists in Italy, who barely knew these Hong Kong activists, even took part in a hunger strike last month calling for immediate release of them. This form of interconnectivity keeps us in spirit and to continue our struggle to freedom and democracy.
Understanding Value of freedom in the university battle
A year ago on this day, Hong Kong was embroiled in burning clashes as the police besieged the Polytechnic University. It was a day we will not forget and this wound is still bleeding in the hearts of many Hong Kongers. A journalist stationed in the university at that time once told me that being at the scene could only remind him of the Tiananmen Square Massacre 31 years ago in Beijing. There was basically no exit except going for the dangerous sewage drains.
That day, thousands of people, old or young, flocked to districts close to the university before dawn, trying to rescue protestors trapped inside the campus. The reinforcements faced grave danger too, for police raided every corner of the small streets and alleys, arresting a lot of them. Among the 800+ arrested on a single day, 213 people were charged with rioting. For sure these people know there will be repercussions. It is the conscience driving them to take to the streets regardless of the danger, the conscience that we should stand up to brutality and authoritarianism, and ultimately to fight for freedoms that are guaranteed in our constitution. As my dear friend, Brian Leung once said, ‘’Hong Kong Belongs to Everyone Who Shares Its Pain’’. I believe the value of freedom is exemplified through our compassion to whom we love, so much that we are willing to sacrifice the freedom of our own.
Defending freedom behind the bars
No doubt there is a terrible price to pay in standing up to the Beijing and Hong Kong government. But after serving a few brief jail sentences and facing the continuing threat of harassment, I learnt to cherish the freedom I have for now, and I shall devote every bit what I have to strive for the freedom of those who have been ruthlessly denied.
The three episodes I shared with you today -- the courtroom, visiting prisoners and the battle of university continue to remind me of the fact that the fight for freedom has not ended yet. In the coming months, I will be facing a maximum of 5 years in jail for unauthorized assembly and up to one ridiculous year for wearing a mask in protest. But prison bars would never stop me from activism and thinking critically.
I only wish that during my absence, you can continue to stand with the people of Hong Kong, by following closely to the development, no matter the ill-fated election, the large-scale arrest under National Security Law or the twelve activists in China. To defy the greatest human rights abusers is the essential way to restore democracy of our generation, and the generation following us.
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