【馬死落地行】
In my wildest dream, I would be a fashion vlogger on Youtube, with impeccable make up, stylist outfits, great cameras, beautiful lighting equipment and talking about adapting runway styles for daily style, serving my female audience.
Reality?
Today, I uploaded a video that I broadcast on Facebook Live a year ago. Shot on a iPhone 6 front camera, potrait mode no less.
Talking about...toads. #癩蛤蟆
When life gives you lemons...
Shifu said I look sickly. Bad choice to stand beside a window of harsh lighting.
This was my 2nd Facebook Live. (I have done over 50 so far) You can hear me mispronounce some words. You can see me tripping over my lines. I was less confident in front of the camera than now.
I wanted to remake this video. But the husband Joseph Ng said my Facebook profile had always been about journeying through the ups and downs of my life, how I made the best of whatever that was handed to me and how my attitude towards Destiny motivates others to overcome difficult times too...
He thinks it's a bad idea if I just fill my Youtube channel with swanky confident videos.
Supposedly it is more interesting to see a Youtuber growing through the years and sift gold in old videos.
I don't remember the husband following any Youtuber. I am unsure if his words can be trusted.
Best way to know the answer is for myself to go through this YouTube journey.
Like what I always advised my clients:
You may not see the wisdom in my words right now, when it is not in sync with what you want for yourself. But if you do what I say, I can guarantee you that your situation will definitely improve.
I have to walk the talk.
In Cantonese, we have a saying that says:
馬死落地行
Once upon a time, a man rode a horse out from his home. Unfortunately the horse died halfway. The man, at his wits' end, had to get off the horse and walked the remaining of his journey.
「没有了优势、靠山、可以依靠的工具，就只能踏实地靠自己，一步步前进。」
When you have lost ALL your support, advantages, strong backing and any tool that could have propel you to success, you can only fall back on yourself.
With your own capabilities, you move forward one step at a time. #IcanIwill
Just don't stay still and waste too much time thinking.
This is how I felt when I tread onto the unfamiliar YouTube terrain, with 10 subbies from my Facebook friends.
🙏
I must get this project rolling before the Dog year comes barking in.
I like to end every year, having tried something new and get positive results from it.
2016 was workshops, long content writing and FB Lives.
2017 is my year of YouTube videos. I have produced 10 videos this year. Mostly on Shifu's channel.
I wonder how long it will take to reach 100 subscribers. I didn't want to do a divination to find out. 我要靠實力取勝。
#competitivewithmyself
The direction is right and that's all that matters.
This video almost didn't make it to my selection. I didn't like the angle it was shot. I am unsure how to make a portrait video look nicer.
Just one of the numerous reasons I could have thrown this video into the trash bin.
But I know the knowledge in it will serve someone. So let's drop the excuses.
If there's something you have been dying to do before 2017 is gone forever, I hope my story can spur you on.
3 weeks. And this is my best effort as of now.
I salute all my videographer friends... 🙇🏻♀️
Subtitling in dual languages took 14 hours.
Holy broccoli. Why do I talk so much...
Not all my Lives are in Mandarin. Most are in English. So if you prefer English videos, there will be more coming up.
In any case, if you don't find the content useful, you have my kind permission to laugh at the stuttering me in my old videos. Anything to make you happy this Thursday midnight.
#有緣好過沒緣 #有view好過沒view
All credit to me sloughing so hard, if you like this video.
If not, blame the 👉 husband 👈 . 😁
Please subscribe to my Youtube channel for new videos! If you have any suggestions, please comment below.
While I may not have the tech savviness to implement them right away, you bet I will keep them in mind to further improve my videos. *wink*
Watch full length video on my YouTube channel:
https://youtu.be/dtcU9GG80wQ
有緣好過沒緣 在 Re: [問題] 佛渡有緣人- 看板soul - 批踢踢實業坊 的推薦與評價
近日繁忙 因此簡單回答一二
若有興趣 聽的下去 我再深論
目前看來 您最大的問題是 誤解了佛教
例如 有錢人 才能作功德主
是誰跟您說 有錢人 才能當功德主 才有功德？
或許名號能當功德主 但實際功德呢？
而 您的目的 是要功德主這名號 還是功德呢？
（連功德真的要深論 也是不予企求的 更何況功德主 此一名號）
佛經中的故事 是這麼說的
https://www.ctworld.org.tw/sutra_stories/story127.htm
這樣 您還會有 有錢才能作功德的想法嗎？
另外 有錢才能親近住持
如果這住持只讓有錢人親近
那麼 其實你有沒親近 對於你的修行差別不大
你覺得親近住持 才能修行的好
那 何不參考我所學的對象
是你想親近的住持的 老師的老師的老師的老師.........
也就是釋迦牟尼佛
佛經那麼多 何苦一定非要跟某位住持學呢？
所以 許多佛教方面的知見
您可能尚未建立完全
而該如何建立？
多讀讀佛經
多多思考
佛教 不是靠神奇的奇蹟 來讓人信仰的
是藉由開啟您的智慧 讓您更認清這宇宙 這人生的許多真相
而讓您不禁佩服 想要深入
這 真要說 真是說來話長
就先說到這吧
※ 引述《LouiseaX (Lulu)》之銘言：
: : 人家說佛渡有緣人
: =>為何動搖? 你怎麼了?
: 我媽媽待人那麼好，連婆婆臥病時都跟我外婆說：妳把孩子教得很好
: 家裡是大家庭，剛來時吃盡苦頭，是後來奶奶臥病才開始覺得媳婦好的
: 因為家裡只有我媽在照顧奶奶，後來的爺爺也是如此。
: 我爸脾氣不好，愛賭博，會大小聲，從小我就很怕他，媽媽也是對爸爸很好
: 當然我也是對我爸不錯，只是我很安靜，怕講錯話被罵，心裡有壓力。
: 信仰動搖是因為看到媽媽這麼好，卻也這麼辛苦，到底信仰做甚麼？
: : 你是說 唸經持咒想讓媽媽 減輕一點負擔嗎?
: : 不然你所謂的 有用是指?
: 同上，為什麼菩薩沒讓我媽過好一點？媽媽說或許菩薩已經幫我們很多了
: ，只是我們不知道。這種說法對我而言是安慰
: : =>你想感應什麼？
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: 讓我對佛法有信心吧！不然我不知道怎麼繼續下去
: : 為何沒緣 = 業障深重....這 有相關連嗎?
:
: 沒關係，只是沒感應別人都會說是因為業障太深
: : 我曾經念 楞嚴心咒 念到催債人員當天 沒打給我....不然每天都打 這算有用嗎？
: : 我女友 念 孔雀明王咒 念一念 那個討厭的人沒多久離開？ 這算有用嗎？
: : 信仰的基礎建立於效果....這....很妙。
: : 或許，我曾經也跟你一樣，天真，無邪。
: : 因為不懂....
: : 如果念經持咒就能變有錢....我相信現在就沒有窮人呢XDDDD
: : 我也曾經念經持咒，也希望有錢 跑到我面前。
: : 與其這樣，不如化作實際行動，去做業務。好好賺錢，減輕媽媽的負擔。
: : 錢 不會從天上掉下來的......
: : 像我也沒什麼信仰....八字本身沒正偏印。
: : 所以，我只信自己得永生XDDDD
: : 佛陀 應該也是信自己
: : 就連耶穌也信自己
: : 請問有哪一個神明 是信了別人之後 成佛?
: : 連自己都不相信自己，請問有誰會相信自己。
: : 信仰這塊，就是NLP的精神層次。
: : 你與世界的關係。
: : 有人是因為信仰，才決定改變自己，並想為這社會貢獻一份心力。
: : 但 先把自己修好吧XDDD
: : 修身 齊家 治國 平天下
: : 連自己都無法搞定自己，又如何去搞定其他人.....
: : P大說得很對，
: : 見山是山 見山不是山 見山還是山
: : 你現在進入第二階段 見山不是山....所以會動搖 迷惘 叫正常XDDDD
: : 加油....因為我不知道 你真正想問什麼？
: 信仰到底要幹嘛？
: : 佛渡有緣人....緣 有時候指的是時間...時間還沒到，自然無法悟道。
: : 就好比 運還沒通，別人要賺大錢....
: : ㄧ切順其自然。套一句話 無欲則剛XDDD
: : 只能說 原PO 你 心亂了....因為你看不見效果!!!你就覺得念經持咒是沒效果....
: : 殊不知，我每天念ㄧ遍北辰經，有天突然想回家走走，修補家庭關係。
: : 這是不是北辰經所帶來的效用呢？
: : Mike
: 老實說我很沮喪，我也在佛寺當過義工（住了快一個月）
: 親近大師父的都是有錢人阿！像我們小咖捐小錢的是坐不了功德主位置的
: 師父還會到中國幫信徒的廠房祈福看風水，應該說有錢的信徒，
: 我們這種小咖普通人家哪輪得上，這讓我很失望，對佛教很失望。
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: 我寫得很亂 很抱歉 會不會有人說我謗佛？
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